MatureDJ
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Is this woman looking to get better genes for her children?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Luthor Rex
Master Don Juan
I think she should bring up these thoughts so he can dump her dumb ass.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
wow.
At least this is a piece of evidence that even guys whose looks are so horrible to cause a woman to want to adopt can get into relationships.
At least this is a piece of evidence that even guys whose looks are so horrible to cause a woman to want to adopt can get into relationships.
Two options come to mind.
1. He's loaded
2. She's not as hot as she thinks she is.
Either way yea- the dude is probably so hideious that she cringes at the thought of actually mixing her eggs with his baby batter. I would suggest that she cheat to get some high quality sprem- but in this age the likelyhood of a DNA test is getting higher every day. If I were her I would delay as long as possible and wringing him out in divorce court; then proceed to have the babies of a non-circus freak.
1. He's loaded
2. She's not as hot as she thinks she is.
Either way yea- the dude is probably so hideious that she cringes at the thought of actually mixing her eggs with his baby batter. I would suggest that she cheat to get some high quality sprem- but in this age the likelyhood of a DNA test is getting higher every day. If I were her I would delay as long as possible and wringing him out in divorce court; then proceed to have the babies of a non-circus freak.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Mature DJ,
I wouldn't lose sleep over this.......Its very well written though isn't it?too well written,carries all the Hallmarks of a Journalists style,as do all the other letters....Ask yourself honestly just how likely is this situation?
I wouldn't lose sleep over this.......Its very well written though isn't it?too well written,carries all the Hallmarks of a Journalists style,as do all the other letters....Ask yourself honestly just how likely is this situation?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Her womense translation:
"My boyfriend is an ugly fvck whom I despise and the only reason I am with him is because he has money and I can't get anyone better. I rather raise someone elses unwanted bastard children then have his d1ck inside me and impregnant me because once I get married to him, he will never sleep with me again. Hell I will just fvck behind his back like I did in college and get pregnant this way and hopefully my husband won't suspect anything and won't bring me on the maury povitch show for DNA testing in 3 years."
"My boyfriend is an ugly fvck whom I despise and the only reason I am with him is because he has money and I can't get anyone better. I rather raise someone elses unwanted bastard children then have his d1ck inside me and impregnant me because once I get married to him, he will never sleep with me again. Hell I will just fvck behind his back like I did in college and get pregnant this way and hopefully my husband won't suspect anything and won't bring me on the maury povitch show for DNA testing in 3 years."
I agree with Scaramouche! Something isn't right about that article. If shes so concerned about beauty then whats she doing with an ugly man. Also she says that she isn't concerned about having biological children even though she is concerned about her chrildren getting the best genes.
I wonder will she only adopt good looking chrildren incase people think an ugly child is hers...
If it's true then it's evidence that looks are not everything in attraction.
I wonder will she only adopt good looking chrildren incase people think an ugly child is hers...
If it's true then it's evidence that looks are not everything in attraction.
Rollo Tomassi
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So, do you guys think this guy should have this b1tch as a girlfriend?
the funny thing is, she is having these thoughts all behind his back, so HE probably thinks that she is the perfect woman, when in reality he should not have her as a girlfriend, or any other b1tch as a girlfriend, and he should just be having fun with his (implied) money!
the funny thing is, she is having these thoughts all behind his back, so HE probably thinks that she is the perfect woman, when in reality he should not have her as a girlfriend, or any other b1tch as a girlfriend, and he should just be having fun with his (implied) money!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Jitterbug,
Your comment"Online journos get poorly written letters from readers and they have to clean them up before posting on the website"makes a lot of sense and I am sure is standard procedure....still notwithstanding,it seems as if all these letters have a similar style,the words roll and develop that consistent cadence or rhythm that only really skilled writers achieve. Embellishments or inventions?we shall never know,as an afterthought if you had to make a living out of answering the emotional problems of the female unwashed out there,a little creativity might be necessary now and then.
Your comment"Online journos get poorly written letters from readers and they have to clean them up before posting on the website"makes a lot of sense and I am sure is standard procedure....still notwithstanding,it seems as if all these letters have a similar style,the words roll and develop that consistent cadence or rhythm that only really skilled writers achieve. Embellishments or inventions?we shall never know,as an afterthought if you had to make a living out of answering the emotional problems of the female unwashed out there,a little creativity might be necessary now and then.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Two things y'all might notice if you click on the link to the post. One is the prudence character's response is pretty funny. Two is it clearly says on the top of the page that "questions may be edited" which gives this prudence character full legal and ethical permission to rewrite to her hearts content.
I can imagine her taking the same tired old relationship questions and putting an interesting spin on them to generate readership.
This ain't "broken glass."
I can imagine her taking the same tired old relationship questions and putting an interesting spin on them to generate readership.
This ain't "broken glass."