"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is this wishful thinking?

Aspiring Don Juan

Aspiring Don Juan

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I'm kinda interested in this one girl (HB 8/10) and was wondering if she liked me back. I've noticed some small things that might indicate that she does, but I feel like it's all wishful thinking. Whenever I talk to her, she seems happy but often stares down, occasionally looking up while twirling her hair. She sometimes starts conversations with me. When I see her, she also compliments my shoes, style, or hair. But, she is very friendly to everyone, but most guys take it the wrong way. Also, when I am flirting with any other girls, she just joins our conversation, and essentially ****blocking the girl i was talking to by draggin her away. Then I go to someone else and the same thing happens! I really wana know what you guys think because I don't want to waste my time
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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defensiveend96

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She likes you man. Go for it. Make sure to act soon or else she will lose interest. Good luck.
 
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