Is this too much to expect from women?

[thewarrior]

I don't like being in a relationship with a slutty woman. Is it possible to still meet a girl who only had a few boyfriends and not went through a period of time where she ****ed random guys and did other wild sexual stuff?

 

[JdelaSilviera]

I don't like being in a relationship with a slutty woman. Is it possible to still meet a girl who only had a few boyfriends and not went through a period of time where she ****ed random guys and did other wild sexual stuff?

Of course, all my girl friends are that way.. There is myth among many puas, that women are the unfaithful, an that´s why they don´t commit, totally bS for me and for anyone who has a wide circle of friends.

There are a lot of biatches out there, but also many quality women...

 

[OMGWTFLMAO]

If you aren't meeting any good quality women then the problem almost certainly stems from where you go to meet them. It's highly unlikely that you will ever meet a high quality woman at a bar/club or at parties. You are more likely to meet higher quality women at college, church and through volunteering. Occasionally you can meet decent people at bars/clubs but most people go to those places to get drunk and either pick someone up or get picked up. The kind of people you surround yourself with matters a great deal in what kind of person you end up getting involved with. If you want to find a piece of art you need to look in a museum or art store, not a bar or landfill.

 

[SandHawk]

This is quite interesting... What makes a girl a sl*t for having a wild period, with perhaps a wide variety of sex partners, and makes this totally acceptable for a guy? You are posting this on a DJ forum, a forum dedicated to meet girls in large quantities, and potentially f*ck them as soon as possible, as often as possible.

You are being a major hypocrite. You basically want to go through a wild period, have sex with lots of girls, until you potentially meet the girl you want to be in a relationship with, but in turn, you want to deny them the same pleasure. If you want a 'pure' girl, don't have sex with every random person yourself either.

 

[Chromeo]

Sandhawk that is a buncha bs. There are not the same standards for women as men. Men are supposed to spread their seed and pick a winner from a larger group. He is not being a hypocrit at all. How does him
having sex with a bunch of girls mean he should expect that his girl have had as many sexual partners? That's retarded.

Women who sleep around with multiple random partners are not relationship material, they are self centered, wild childs.

Not saying it's wrong or saying you can't get one in a LTR. But would you really want too? Majority would say no, they want a girl whose gonna be faithful and not give it up at the drop of a hat. Are you really gonna be ok with dating a wild sex slvt who you come across on the Internet taking another guys c*ck. Ok harsh scenario but you get what I'm sayin?

But I see what your sayin too, definitely you can't expect every girl to be a perfect virgin angel. I mean sh*t even if she had, like op said, only a few sexual partners you don't think she hasn't done some freaky azz sh*t with them? Dream on, forget the past, and don't pry into her sexual past it will only drive you nuts.

 

[OMGWTFLMAO]

Chromeo, you've got some thought distortions on board. You might want to look into some Cognitive Behavioral Therapy self help books. What you are referring to is what apes and animals out in the wild do because their survival depends on it due to the food chain and risks of being offed by predators. Humans are a bit more civilized than that. Men are not apes. If they were all men would also feel compelled to hurl turd curve balls and drink their own piss. Let's be realistic here. The vast majority of people have multiple sex partners before they settle down. That's the reality, whether you like it or not, and unless you are chaste as well you are being a hypocrite as someone else mentioned.

 

[Bladerunner]

But I see what your sayin too, definitely you can't expect every girl to be a perfect virgin angel. I mean sh*t even if she had, like op said, only a few sexual partners you don't think she hasn't done some freaky azz sh*t with them? Dream on, forget the past, and don't pry into her sexual past it will only drive you nuts.

Or you could learn to accept her sexuality and not be jealous that other guys have been with her and realize that there's nothing wrong with that. Just saying.