"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is this too manipulative

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nateistoraw said:
Hi, I have a 1st date coming up soon.
Thats great, good for you.

I have really thought this out.
Haha Ok?? Your only thoughts should be on what you will be doing and having fun.

The date will involve some walking.
I would hope so, I'm glad to see that you are not a paraplegic.

On the date, I will "encounter" a homeless person and give them food that was stored in a "doggie-bag". After they gladly accept, or at least I hope:]
:crackup: What the **** is this ****?

"I asked for a sandwich bi$%h" -Scary Movie
:confused: Your weird. lol (No offense)

After that I will ask them if they were a veteran, if they say yes, I will give them like a dollar or 2. If not, I will continue to the next step.
I am at a lost. Did you lose a family member in the war or something and Will you even be paying attention to your date while your doing all of this stuff?

I will have some little conversation with them, and actually get their name. I will tell them good luck, and I have confidence in them.
The hell is this? Is this a joke? Are you kidding around here? I sure hope so.

Now is my plans for the upcoming date too manipulative?
To tell you the honest to god truth, I dont even see any plans for a date here. All you did was talk about finding some homeless person, giving them some food in a doggy bag (As if anyone would want that) and asking them if they are a veteran. You dont even say what your going to do before or after this incident. Nope sorry, I dont see anything about a 'date' here at all. If your going to plan to be manipulative on a date, at least plan the date portion out, ok?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nateistoraw said:
Okay, I wish i could make a poll for this.

I personally think it was a good idea, however, you all are the DJs.

I think I should have a more natural date, then one thats planned from a to b.
You need to get laid my friend. lol :up:

Concentrate on her. Completely. Trust me. :up:
 

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thread of the year right here. I laughed my ass.... LOL at the jesus comment.

It'd be great if you could pull like a 20oz ribeye from a hat...complete with a salad and baked potato (still warm)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you talk to a homeless person with a hot chick beside you, they will likely be a nutjob, a drunk, or a drunken nutjob, cut your throat and do her fifty times.

Bad plan.
 

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lol ,It was good idea in theory. However it is was premeditated.

If you ever encounter a bum go ahead, but d'ont ever go around 'looking' for a bum while your spending time with a plate. Always move naturally.

You can show you generous qualities to women in better ways, which don't necessarily have to include bums.



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I seen that Law and order episode:

Buddy helped the homeless guy cause he saw the homeless guy was wearing his marine corps patches. Buddy says "Hey man, you really in the Marines?" Homeless guy responds "Yeah, Gulf War 1."

Turns out buddy was a Marine himself, and was just helping out a fellow Marine. Once a Marine, always a Marine and all that good stuff.

It certainly wasn't because he pitied the vet. Pity a vet and you're liable to get an ass-whooping right there.

Anyways gents, support the troops. Hate the war, praise the warrior.

(What a strange thread...)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: i just damn near shot my sprite out of my nose reading this
 
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