You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
guru1000 said:Do that ... and then disappear without notice for one month. When you return, you would just have created a love slave.
Really? I'm going to field test and see tooguru1000 said:Do that ... and then disappear without notice for one month. When you return, you would just have created a love slave.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
https://petitrocks.files.wordpress.com/2013/05/crazy-eyes.gifguru1000 said:Hot women are narcissists: they crave attention and compliments. So naturally when you light up their endorphins, and then disappear, what happens?
I thought All women were head cases with low confidence?Suspens said:@1000: that rollercoaster method only works on headcase chicks with low confidence, no matter how hot they are.
Pretty much, very sappy way to ask someone out lol:-) said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
It's true that the difference between a good romance and a good porno is that at some point the romance encountered obstacles that prevented sex from happening.guru1000 said:Good topic.
The more pronounced the peaks and valleys of the roller coaster, the more addicted they become.
Matter of fact, my game transmuted recently to telling a girl how awesome she is and flooding her with beta-sounding attention and then dropping off the face of the earth. It's chick-crack.
Hot women are narcissists: they crave attention and compliments. So naturally when you light up their endorphins, and then disappear, what happens?