"Hear this, and hear it clearly. They are not going to get better. Ever. There is nothing you can do, no kindness you can extend, no sympathy you can embrace, no psychological slight-of-hand, nor the culmination of wisdom from your entire life’s experience that you can bring to bear to make a BPD anything other than a major, life draining pain in the ass and a potential nightmare waiting to destroy everything you have, inside and out."
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Is this statement true about BPD woman
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Pretty much tbh.
At least in my experience, I had a diagnosed borderline in my life for about 3 years and she was a lost cause sadly. Hell bent on destroying herself and thus taking anyone close down with her.
I still hear from her almost monthly to this day
At least in my experience, I had a diagnosed borderline in my life for about 3 years and she was a lost cause sadly. Hell bent on destroying herself and thus taking anyone close down with her.
I still hear from her almost monthly to this day
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I've read that article...and yes its true. I swear, it's been over a year and I still get texts even though it's been almost 7 months since I've replied. Life draining pain in the a$$ is a perfect description. I stay No Contact for my own sanity. You should do the same.