"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is this something that makes sense (something girl said during sex)

fruitopiax

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Ok so I met this girl right took her to the movies and then had her back in my room the 2 days later. So I'm fingering her and when I can tell she's getting into it she pulls away. And I ask why and she says something about pleasure and leading to more. She told me she couldn't have sex with me that night because it was only the 2nd day I met her. A little later when Im actually ****ing her she starts going yea yea thats good faster faster or whatever, so I start going faster and she pulls away again. And is like lets just cuddle. I broke through the cuddling thing too and switched positions with her, but anyone have a girl say that to them like that before? Just doesnt make sense to me
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BMX

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Be sure to use a bit of FOREPLAY
 

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fruitopiax said:
Ok so I met this girl right took her to the movies and then had her back in my room the 2 days later. So I'm fingering her and when I can tell she's getting into it she pulls away. And I ask why and she says something about pleasure and leading to more. She told me she couldn't have sex with me that night because it was only the 2nd day I met her. A little later when Im actually ****ing her she starts going yea yea thats good faster faster or whatever, so I start going faster and she pulls away again. And is like lets just cuddle. I broke through the cuddling thing too and switched positions with her, but anyone have a girl say that to them like that before? Just doesnt make sense to me
Sounds like you werent doing a thing right and she didn't want to bruise your ego by telling you so.
 

mintxx

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the second time she does that you get dressed and kick her out, and don't call her
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Brians_600rr

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dude next time she says something like "lets cuddle" or "i cant have sex with u" just roll over and snore HELLA LOUD!!! its pretty funny and gets the point across that shes being boring.. good luck bro

and i also agree with mintxx
 

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If you were fvcking her right she should be screaming and unable to talk, it is impossible for her to stop you at this stage.

Just work on your sexual techniques.
 

GoodButNotGreat

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I had that happen to me kinda recently, she said she couldn't kiss me, but we ended up doing that and more just a little bit later in the night. It was the first time I hung out with her 1 on 1, so its probably the comfort factor and she doesn't want to come off as easy.
 
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