"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The_Mole

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Okay, this hot girl that flaked on me twice already have set a date this monday


is this even right after she flaked twice??

should i cancel it to show her how it feels?

and also, its her bday over thanksgiving and if i do see her, what gift should i get?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gehnan

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If I were you, I would not get her a gift, as that is what every other guy who places her on a pedestal would do. Then again, if I were you, I would be saying next right now. My general rule of thumb is, if they flake once, and there's a good explanation, no problem, **** happens. If it happens twice however, they are disrespecting my time, and thus, me. NEXT!
 

Gangster Of Love

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You should flake on her, but there is almost guaranteed that she's gonna flake on you. The key is for you to beat her to it. After that, let her make the efford, until you raise her interest level. Be prepared to next her.

Please, no gift. If you get a gift, you probably won't even get to give it to her. Don't even acknowledge her birthday.
 

Maverick001

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The_Mole,

Are you serious? 2 flake outs and you're still considering getting her a birthday gift?!

First off, did you call her on her flaking out? What did she say about?

If her flaking is for BS reasons, as they probably are, then you need to hit fast and hard. Tell her something like,
I'm not disrespectful to anyone and I won't tolerate anyone being disrespectful to me. I don't flake out on anyone and if anyone flakes out on me, then our friendship is in serious jeopardy."

If the girl seriously wants to make amends, tell her, "What are you going to do to make up for it?" Then really wind her up.

Don't flake on her or any stupid "revenge" type cr@p like that. That's for fools and weaklings. You're a DJ or a DJ-in-training right? Conduct yourself like one.

More than likely, she'll continue with a flaky attitude and so that can only result in one thing...HER BEING NEXTED!

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,
Mav
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DeathDealer

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I only let a girl flake on me once. If she flakes on me a second time I don't even make plans with her. Would you tolerate this BS with a male friend? I think not.

I would have a backup plan on that day such as hitting a bar or chilling with a rental movie and beer. You got a life man.

Wtf you giving a gift for? Are you a weakling?
 
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