Is this salvagable

[seasonedplayer]

Met a girl and took her on a date on a thursday night. Everything went really well - we kissed at the end of the night and she seemed infactuated by me. Next dau she started sending me emails and so I asked her out on the saturday night.

On the saturday night, i took her on a dinner date and then went back to her place after a couple of drinks at a bar. we went back to her place and made out and she was saying things to me such as "i have to introduce you to my parents" etc. etc. It came to the end of the night and she went cold as I was leaving. Then I phoned her up on the Tuesday and she said someone was at her door and she would call back. she never called back.

What could have made this girl change her mind? is this salvageable?

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Don't worry about it, you guys only went on 2 dates. Could've been a million different things but its not in your power to know what it is right now. If she's interested still she'll call you. If she doesn't, she doesnt'.



PIMP

 

[ManOMan]

I find it amazing that this guy is thinking "She gave me all the buying signals, I was the PRIZE, what could have POSSIBLY made whoever was at the door more improtant than me?"

then thinking , is it salvageable?? WHo destroyed it? what did they destroy?

Stop acting like a woman sitting by the phone, sounds like you are using this girl to define your ego and how much more priority you should have been

 

[seasonedplayer]

that is not true. I am 27 years old and do not think about ego and don't care about other guys. the bottom line is I liked her and she gave all the signals that she liked me. she suddenly went cold. I am not sure why. Maybe I was too keen, pushed too hard. No idea.

 

[diablo]

Or perhaps the person at her door was her long-lost husband who she'd given up for dead long ago when his plane crashed in the Atlantic.

Why worry about things that you can't possibly know the answer to, nor can influence? If she is interested, she'll make the effort. Waiting around for her to call is going to make you jump and be happy when/if she finally does call you back - and possibly make you look like an AFC. Do your thing, if she calls back, then it's good. If not, she's one of 3.5 billion females out there...