"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is this relationship possible

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See i know this beautiful girl and we talk on myspace. I used to date her older sister, but the story of that relationship was all her fault since she was still with her boyfriend when me and her were going out.

Now the other twist to the story is that this girl talks to me a lot but she was my friends girlfriend for a while then they broke up

am i crossing the line if i try and PU this hb8 and if so what strategy would be the best to eliminate several problems..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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immrtlwun

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Find another girl. There are way too many issues involved with this girl and your past.
 

Walker9

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2 complex .. suggest you date other chicks for a while . if she happens to be single some point of time , give it a thought but READ THE DJ BIBLE BEFORE YOU ATTEMPT ANY FREAKIN THING
 

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Dude go for this chick, and slam the d on her. Check this out, don't sweat it that you saw her sister, in fact girls will talk but that's not your problem. I'd say go for it, so I'd joke around with her on myspace, like keep it cool and have some fun with this.

If you're playing this right she'll be responding to your messages, and throw in a private message when you think its right. Eventually you'll find something in common, so keep it light till you do, once you got something in common, play for it. I mean dont' invest all your hopes in this girl, but it's worth a shot.

If you want to go for this girl, do it, at least throw your hat into the mix.
 
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