"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is this real life?

Down Low

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I wouldn't waste my time responding to a 260 pound fattie.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PlentyOfLove

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Why is bench pressing considered important anyway? I used to bench close to twice my weight when I was younger and hitting the gym 4 times a week, but I gave it a bit of thought and saw how pointless it was. Some people I know go to the gym just for bench pressing. Why? Is it cool to bench 200kg, and being unable to do a single pull-up, or actually run or play sports?

In martial arts, sports, working even the most physical job, or when defending your girl your chest muscles aren't the ones to go to.
 
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