Is this polite or rude

[vonbock]

I have been dating this girl and I have been gettingless and less trustful of her becuase of 2 reason and I wanted to know what you all think.

1. I have been dating for 2-3 years and whenever we go to a party, some other guys who have gf's or married start talking with her. Then they tell her that hey "Why don't you and your sisters come out with us, we'll give you a call". They don't even talk to me. I tell her that its rude for her to give her number to guys in front of me and she says that she is only doing this so she can find guys for her sisters. I tell her that hey, if the guy is classy, why don't she tell him to "Get my b/f's number and call him when you do something" She responds back, "I know you, you don't like going anywhere and you are selfish for not helping out my sisters" IS this rude or am I overanlyzing.

2. When we first met, she emphasized that she only had 1 boyfriend in her life, she is homey and conservative. Now one by one, I find out from other people that she was with this guy, another guy, etc. Then I find out that she even lived with another guy for a year. I am not upset that she was with other guys, but I am upset that she lies about having only one boyfriend and I get to find out about all the others from other people. I did confront her with other 2, but she said that she was just hanging out with them and didn't do anything. Should I be upset for her lying?

 

[Indifference Kills]

hell yes
it sounds like she has a lack of respect for you
if any at all

 

[piterx]

don't love her if you do..

 

[wayword]

2. When we first met, she emphasized that she only had 1 boyfriend in her life, she is homey and conservative. Now one by one, I find out from other people that she was with this guy, another guy, etc. Then I find out that she even lived with another guy for a year.

Lol, a lot of girls try to play down their sexual past. In fact, most, if not all...haha.

 

[jonwon]

I have been dating this girl and I have been gettingless and less trustful of her becuase of 2 reason and I wanted to know what you all think.

1. I have been dating for 2-3 years and whenever we go to a party, some other guys who have gf's or married start talking with her. Then they tell her that hey "Why don't you and your sisters come out with us, we'll give you a call". They don't even talk to me. I tell her that its rude for her to give her number to guys in front of me and she says that she is only doing this so she can find guys for her sisters. I tell her that hey, if the guy is classy, why don't she tell him to "Get my b/f's number and call him when you do something" She responds back, "I know you, you don't like going anywhere and you are selfish for not helping out my sisters" IS this rude or am I overanlyzing.

2. When we first met, she emphasized that she only had 1 boyfriend in her life, she is homey and conservative. Now one by one, I find out from other people that she was with this guy, another guy, etc. Then I find out that she even lived with another guy for a year. I am not upset that she was with other guys, but I am upset that she lies about having only one boyfriend and I get to find out about all the others from other people. I did confront her with other 2, but she said that she was just hanging out with them and didn't do anything. Should I be upset for her lying?

The answer you want is yes!

 

[Kings_royalty]

its rude for her to give her number to guys in front of me

You think? It's bad enough that she's giving her number out to guys, but infront of you? That's just adding insult to injury. Why are you even with her still? That shouldn't fly with you, or any guy for that matter.

Now one by one, I find out from other people that she was with this guy, another guy, etc. Then I find out that she even lived with another guy for a year.

Girls may try to down play their sexual past, but this is going above and beyond that. She's lying to you about 'relationships', who knows what else she will lie about.

You need to man up (because you are soundling a little like a push-over right now) or haul ass and don't look back.

 

[Distant Light]

Is this the only girl you mess with? If so then ya it would be rude, as for her lieing thats typical girl stuff girls are always going to lie about how much she's been with all ASD BS. If you have more girls on the side that your fuvking then you shouldn't really care about the numbers that she is taken.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

she is homey and conservative.

upgrade?

 

[Ratisson]

why dont u do this. Next time she does this, go right up to the hottest girl u see and start talking to her. When ur girlfriend comes back to u ask the girl for her phone number right infront of ir GF. This will piss her off. Im surprised ur putting up with this sh!t from her. But do this anyway and im sure she'll get the message

 

[SamePendo]

2 points

1) You are in love with her, so you take her too seriously. Fix that.
2) I hope you are getting laid, if not, THAT is ****en rude!

So, if you get control of no.1, and are getting a great amount doze of no.2, stick around, if not, dump her and get no.2 from the thousands of women who are immediately available to you.

 

[speed dawg]

1. I have been dating for 2-3 years

Stop right there, scooter. 2-3 years? Which one is it, 2 or 3? Big difference, huh? I don't know ANY COUPLE that has been together for 2 years and plays those types of games she's playing with you. She has no respect for you, and you are just making up sh!t. Did you mean 2-3 months? That makes more sense.

 

[Faca]

Had been in a kind of same situation. My advice to you is DUMP HER! Even if you love her, still dump her.. she ain't good for you.

First she hasn't any respect for you, lied about things.. and when it's her fault she tries to attack you about you. Of not being nice enough to find her sister a boyfriend?.. Dude you have to wake up and see that you are a push over!

Second, if the situation from the begining was ****ed up.. why did you stay with her?.. and conservative ?.. she told you that she was a virgin?.. I mean never believe girlz when they talk about their dating/sexual past. Where you there that you are sure about that.. and even why the hell does that matter?..

Live in now and don't care about past!

Never take any disrespect from any women, doesn't matter how nice she has been to you in the past or how much you like her.

And treat every woman the same, never make any exceptions!

And one thing that i did learn from women, is that every and i mean every women.. no matter what they tell you, HAS A BACKUP PLAN. And i mean, even if she is only dating you, she has guys in row waiting to date her. And if you're not already doing this, it is what you should do.

Go out, meet new girls, or keep in touch with the old ones. Let her know, that other girls want you.

But the best advice, is and i know that you won't listen to this.. and that you'll have to learn it the hard way..

is to.. JUST LET GO!.. forget her and move on, she is not the only one!