"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is this oneitis or something else?

jhonny9546

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Hi friends!

I've known this woman for about four months now, and she's the only one, out of all the others, who makes me feel these things.

(I should point out that i had a oneitis in the past, but actually i feel it kinda different this time. I manage to stay clear-headed and open-minded about the bull**** she does.)

1) I feel a strong desire to f0ck her every time I see her. She too.

Sex is practically an explosion of sensations and emotions.

2) When she's not around, I go into withdrawal and can't wait to see her again; I miss her voice, her person, her body.

3) I have a strong friendship that I've never had with any other woman. It feels like having a male friend, but its actually a sister.

4) If I feel she might be in danger, an incredible strength is released within me and I rush to help her.

5) I feel bad if I don't see her in 1-7 days, but if it's 10 or more days, it becomes normal and her memory is that of a friend.

I was wondering if there was something like I'd found a compatible person.

I've had oneitis in the past, but this time I feel different, and I'm not her doormat or anything, but what I can say is that I feel an instinctive power that I didn't have before with other women.

So if this is not oneitis, but just love (honeymoon phase), it look like there will be companionship love after.
So it might be a good person to keep in a LTR.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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