"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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my GF forwarded this to me and we have different points of views on this, so I figured i"d post it here.

the guy in the football gear is Ray Maleguna. He's a linebacker for the USC Trojans, and is about to be filthy rich next year, becuase he's a lock to be a top 10 pick in the NFL Draft. that doesn't protain to this post however.

The woman in the picture is erin andrews, a sideline reporter for ESPN college football games. Now.. Erin is an internet forum legend well..becuase she's smoking hot.


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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2eRVomQZO8

Now, I don't think if I were an attractive woman, I would be that offended by that. Would it be awkard? i'm sure. But I don't see how someone can look at this and think that he thinks any less of her business profession becuase of what he did. he just thinks she's hot. If anything i'd be flattered.

She really is, besides being hot, very, very good at her job. She takes it seriously and does a wonderful job.

For a woman, I'm sure she would rather take the negatives of being an attractive woman and have awakard moments like this happen from time to time, then well... not be attractive whatsoever and and have all the negatives that come along with that.


Do I thnk it's Taseful? Not at all. Would I have done it? no. But I dont' see how you should feel disrespected becuase a guy is attracted to you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Offensive- no

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That's it? It's so short and meaningless how could anyone be offended by that
 

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well..that's what I thought.

I think some women (i.e my GF) don't get the difference between stupid and disrespetful.
 

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I think it was inappropriate and he should be verbally warned about, but I wouldn't lose my wits about it either if I were her. A guy with class wouldn't do that, but at the same time, he was just goofing off.

Mystery was being interviewed by Conan O'Brien once and he said that guys don't know what it's like to have the opposite sex be physically imposing and threatening. The only time men might understand is if they're under the threat of being ass-raped in prison, and then you'd probably not find it funny if some guy twice your physical size walked up behind you in the prison and did what Maleguna did.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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put in contex, ray ray was not going to pull out his package, undress erin andrews infrot of 105,000 people and ass rape her.

stated, he is a dumbass, he is a lock for a top 10 pick and if that is any indication of his character (the same guy that wore pink underwere over his unifiom earlier this year ) i'm not touching this guy with a 10 foot pole with that type of investment.
 

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speakeasy said:
Mystery was being interviewed by Conan O'Brien once and he said that guys don't know what it's like to have the opposite sex be physically imposing and threatening. The only time men might understand is if they're under the threat of being ass-raped in prison, and then you'd probably not find it funny if some guy twice your physical size walked up behind you in the prison and did what Maleguna did.
Yea, it's a WHOLE different thing for women when it comes to this sort of thing.

I don't think she felt threatened, but you gotta understand that women are very jittery about the fact that they are the weaker sex.

When I was just out of HS one of my buddies and I thought it would be funny for him to hide in the back seat of one of our coworkers cars, and jump out as she left the parking lot.

We were pretty dumb back then, not realizing what kind of reaction she would have. Lets put it this way.....I wouldn't doubt if that incident scarred her for life, that's how freakin terrified she was.
 

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damn start8p your buddies are rapists in training. that's a pretty scrwed up thing to do
 
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