"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is this normal?

ChrizZ

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I used to be skinny a couple of years ago.

Now I´m 6´3 210 pds and musuclar.

However I still feel like I´m a skinny bastard. Anybody else feel that way?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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immrtlwun

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It might go into the category of muscular dysmorphia. A psychological issue where you view your body differently than others see it. No matter how big you are, you feel like you aren't that big. I know a guy thats almost exactly like you. He is 6' 3" and weighed 170 in high school and now he's about 205 but still feels like he is too skinny. Its similar to how people with an eating disorder always say they look fat when they are 90 pounds.
 

Zaraza

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I am 5 7.5 or 5 8 and I weight 165 with 10% bodyfat (just measured today at gym). I personally think im still skinny because i have not reached my goal of 170. like the previous posters said, it is a mental thing. People say that I am muscular, but my satisfaction level of how i want to look is still not fulfilled.
 

ChrizZ

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It must have to do with the fact that I see myself everyday in the mirror, so I don´t notice a difference.

I´m aiming for 240 pds.
 
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