Is this normal? Is this how it goes?

[WhtRbt]

Is this how it goes for you guys that have 'got it'? This is starting to mind**** me a bit.

I'm seeing several girls. I don't have to try to set up dates or anything after one or two meetings. It seems like if a girl gets a taste of me she goes crazy for me. I get text messages all day long. Girls buy me stuff, offer to take me on trips, give me hookups thru their jobs, and ask me out on dates.

Sometimes I see 3 different girls three nights in a row. I had sex with a girl on my lunch break today, and I'm having a different one come over tonight. It's ****ing crazy.

Dudes, I never even had a date until after highschool. Has anyone else had similar experience? Is this just a phase? This stuff was just so far outside my reality even 3 months ago. Head asplode.

 

[decentguy]

What happened in the past 3 months that made it become a part of your reality?

 

[YAboi]

What happened in the past 3 months that made it become a part of your reality?

I'd like to find this out as well, cos if ur gettin asked on dates then ur definitely doin something right...so the big question is what is it?

 

[WhtRbt]

Basically I'm just being chill and living in the moment. A few months ago I found Eckhart Tolle and his stuff really helped me out. Before that I had studied pretty much EVERY pickup info I could find. DJ bible, Doc Love, David D, mystery method, I read personal development books, listened to audio watched video read everything. Still wasn't really getting much success. I mean I got way more dates and stuff, but I couldn't really get the lay. I still didn't 'have it'.

I think what I was missing was the spiritual component. I studied Eckhart Tolle and a lot of eastern philosophy like the tao and buddhism and zen and everything and got that part of me handled. Then I watched the blueprint and everything really started to click. I feel great. I do whatever I want. It's like it just happens now and I don't even have to think about what to do.

I never really used to do 'kino'. I would go on dates but not get lays. Now sometimes I just walk up to girls and pick and carry 'em around. I run my fingers through their hair. I claw them in. I grab their hand and lead them around. Not because I'm trying to pick them up or get them home, but just because I want to. I like the feel of my fingers going thru their hair, so if I get the urge, I just do it. The 'right' actions just come through me. I feel it and I do it.

I used to focus on trying to get the girl home, or trying to get her to like me (mostly without even knowing I was focusing on this stuff). I was always looking forward to some future moment. Now I just enjoy the current moment. And it's like girls can sense it.

It's true guys, whatever 'it' is that you need to 'get' to have girls go crazy for you, it's already in you. You already have it.

 

[YAboi]

I actually own 'the power of now' by eckhart tolle thanks to it being advertised on this forum time and time again by guys like interceptor e.t.c but its actually the most 'difficult to read' book i've ever tried to finish in my entire life.

By chapter 4 , the new age mumbo jumbo language just gets way too much and that led to me never finishing it.

 

[DonGorgon]

They like his looks.. women will fall for you quick just based on looks..

 

[WhtRbt]

I actually own 'the power of now' by eckhart tolle thanks to it being advertised on this forum time and time again by guys like interceptor e.t.c but its actually the most 'difficult to read' book i've ever tried to finish in my entire life.

By chapter 4 , the new age mumbo jumbo language just gets way too much and that led to me never finishing it.

The book points to a certain 'place' inside yourself. The words are actually not important. They are just trying to lead you to a certain understanding. The whole book talks about one thing. That's it. If you understand, the whole book makes sense. If you haven't 'seen' it yet, the book will probably be very difficult to read lol. All it takes is one glimpse and you'll get it and everything will make sense. And it will probably change your life.

They like his looks.. women will fall for you quick just based on looks..

lol pretty sure it's not my looks. I'm 6'1 155lbs and pale as a ghost. I'm pretty much a scrawny nerd. Looks don't mean sh*t =) I almost think guys with looks would have it harder. For one thing they'd have to deal with girls they aren't attracted to approaching them. I just approach what appeals to me.

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

When you are living in the moment, it is because you have no attachment to outcome. You have killed the neediness and the anxiety, and it manifests itself as the fun guy they want to get more of (and fvck).

I too am swimming in it now, and this is why.

 

[WhtRbt]

When you are living in the moment, it is because you have no attachment to outcome. You have killed the neediness and the anxiety, and it manifests itself as the fun guy they want to get more of (and fvck).

I too am swimming in it now, and this is why.

Yes it's like when you're in the moment everything just happens automatically. It really was the key for me. Cheers bro =)

 

[2cool4school]

sounds like you had a healthy dose of inner game coming together. Good job man!

 

[DonGorgon]

lol pretty sure it's not my looks. I'm 6'1 155lbs and pale as a ghost. I'm pretty much a scrawny nerd. Looks don't mean sh*t =) I almost think guys with looks would have it harder. For one thing they'd have to deal with girls they aren't attracted to approaching them. I just approach what appeals to me.

Ok then well said dude.. then you have the powerful charisma that turns women on..

 

[WhtRbt]

Ok then well said dude.. then you have the powerful charisma that turns women on..

I don't think there's a 'certain' charisma that girls respond too. It's having your own charisma and being completely comfortable with it.

 

[TheDon]

Man Im with you WhtRbt. For some reason everything is falling into place but something's missing. I got a feeling its the spiritual side of me that needs work. BTW whats the movie you watched? The blueprint? Googled it cant seem to find it

 

[WhtRbt]

Man Im with you WhtRbt. For some reason everything is falling into place but something's missing. I got a feeling its the spiritual side of me that needs work. BTW whats the movie you watched? The blueprint? Googled it cant seem to find it

Eckharte Tolle was the biggest help for me. Search for his vids on Google Video, and there's a CD1 and CD2 video of his that lasts about 3 hours. Also read the Power of Now. After I understood what tolle was getting at, I had an interest in zen so I studied that for awhile, which was interesting. I also really like the Tao Te Ching. Once you 'get it', then I would recommend watching The Blueprint Decoded. It basically relates that spiritual understanding and just getting joy from being alive to how to get girls.

 

[TheDon]

Eckharte Tolle was the biggest help for me. Search for his vids on Google Video, and there's a CD1 and CD2 video of his that lasts about 3 hours. Also read the Power of Now. After I understood what tolle was getting at, I had an interest in zen so I studied that for awhile, which was interesting. I also really like the Tao Te Ching. Once you 'get it', then I would recommend watching The Blueprint Decoded. It basically relates that spiritual understanding and just getting joy from being alive to how to get girls.

Thanks for the pointers, looking forward to diving into that book