Is this normal behavior or just attention whoring?

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This isn't currently happening now but these women would literally go out of their way to approach me after all this. A couple months ago there was a girl at my gym who asked me out on a date that night but later flaked and ghosted. She reappeared through text and in person at the gym took my hand and placed it on her thigh. She flaked a second time which was when I asked her if she was seeing someone, which she said she wasn't. A week after that she started approaching me again but at that point I just kept it friendly. I don't talk to her anymore but that is what I get for the most part.

The other problem is I'm just genuinely not attracted to the vast majority of women. I'm fit and in shape so when 70% of adults are overweight or obese the pickings are slim. Most of the ones that are attractive are taken, so I have a mindset of scarcity because I know there just isn't much out there. Hell, I have tried dating sites and apps and was absolutely appalled at the quality of women on there and genuinely concerned, there just isn't much out there.

More excuses, whining, negativity, dwelling on the past and no action.

What is your game plan to get laid?