wjh
Master Don Juan
GF has a MySpace. Her excuse? She uses it to communicate with family she has overseas. (She has a big family).
I generally don't feel too comfortable with girls I'm semi-serious with having a MySpace. Thing is... Her MySpace address is her ex's initials and hers combined. She also has him still as a friend. She doesn't have him on a "Top 8" or whatever. She doesn't have a super AW profile or anything with 400 "friends".
Now, I'm young and LTRs right now shouldn't really be that big of a deal. I know this girl is very interested in me. But I don't trust her 100%. I'm not sure if you can trust anyone 100% - even family.
So I'm just wondering if it's my business... Should I care? He's not in the picture, other than that. I told her in the beginning, after finding out she was only single a couple months, that I don't date girls with ex-boyfriend baggage. It's one of my rules. She made it a point to tell me that she was in no way in contact with him and everyone in her family knows she wants nothing to do with him.
The truth is, not only because I don't trust her 100%, but because I also don't see her as much as I would like (she's busy with school, she lives about an hour drive, she has family obligations which I respect) - I don't know if this relationship is very strong from the jump.
There are no indicators that I would break up with her for any reason, other than finding a better girl/more accessible girl without a MySpace... Should I just stick this through for now and see what happens?
If this girl was a girl I didn't have these other issues with, I think I would make a bigger deal out of this MySpace, but I'm not. She also has a FaceBook.
And another funky question, I'm not sure if this is normal or an AFC disposition, but is it weird/bad/not DJ to consider dating other girls (spinning other plates) not an option right now? I feel it would be dishonest, because of the monogamy... I'm not sure what I'm saying here, but I'm also positive that this girl isn't 100% what I want from a "real" LTR - this almost feels temporary. Did I jump into something I shouldn't have?
There are other girls I could "get" if I wanted to, it's not really a scarcity thing... I like a lot of things about this girl in particular, some not so much.
Why am I so confused?
I generally don't feel too comfortable with girls I'm semi-serious with having a MySpace. Thing is... Her MySpace address is her ex's initials and hers combined. She also has him still as a friend. She doesn't have him on a "Top 8" or whatever. She doesn't have a super AW profile or anything with 400 "friends".
Now, I'm young and LTRs right now shouldn't really be that big of a deal. I know this girl is very interested in me. But I don't trust her 100%. I'm not sure if you can trust anyone 100% - even family.
So I'm just wondering if it's my business... Should I care? He's not in the picture, other than that. I told her in the beginning, after finding out she was only single a couple months, that I don't date girls with ex-boyfriend baggage. It's one of my rules. She made it a point to tell me that she was in no way in contact with him and everyone in her family knows she wants nothing to do with him.
The truth is, not only because I don't trust her 100%, but because I also don't see her as much as I would like (she's busy with school, she lives about an hour drive, she has family obligations which I respect) - I don't know if this relationship is very strong from the jump.
There are no indicators that I would break up with her for any reason, other than finding a better girl/more accessible girl without a MySpace... Should I just stick this through for now and see what happens?
If this girl was a girl I didn't have these other issues with, I think I would make a bigger deal out of this MySpace, but I'm not. She also has a FaceBook.
And another funky question, I'm not sure if this is normal or an AFC disposition, but is it weird/bad/not DJ to consider dating other girls (spinning other plates) not an option right now? I feel it would be dishonest, because of the monogamy... I'm not sure what I'm saying here, but I'm also positive that this girl isn't 100% what I want from a "real" LTR - this almost feels temporary. Did I jump into something I shouldn't have?
There are other girls I could "get" if I wanted to, it's not really a scarcity thing... I like a lot of things about this girl in particular, some not so much.
Why am I so confused?