"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is this measurable

WestCoast1492

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I was at a bar this weekend, and managed to strike up a long conversation with this cute blonde.

There was good social proofing, as my friends were talking to her friends and she was alone at the table. Nevertheless, it eventually got to being just me and her talking. Some decent kino, i made her check my pusle b/c she said she was a nursing student. She was asking me questions, not just 1 way.. But at some point, her friend came back and the conversation just died down. Is this a tangible thing, where if you don't make a really bold move she will lose interest. I tend to theorize there is a time period where you have to be successful in a bar atmosphere. Anybody else?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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