"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BadsnakeUK

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I've just started dating this HB8.5 who's pretty much ideal for me. Problem is, she's really into me and I don't feel comfortable with her being this infatuated just for me being me. Yeah I suppose I'm a bit of a catch (work out a lot, play in a band etc) and I feel and act more like a man these days days than I ever used to, but she just seems to have gone loopy for me. I'm just wondering if this is really all it takes? How can someone fall for someone that hard just for them being themself? I know real men are hard to come by these days but even so... I've had to start disqualifying myself a little bit so she doesn't start getting that perfect man fantasy about me and then turn bitter when I don't live up to it.

I'm pretty sure she's not a crazy/BPD as I've dated a fair few of these before and I know ALL the red flags where those b1tches are concerned.

Its also doubly hard as I'm trying to make sure I keep that healthy distance and hold something back, something I never used to do in my AFC days. I'm only seeing her about once a week as I'm pretty busy and have other commitments, which she's been fine with, but I've still got that nagging voice from my darkest AFC days that says its too good to be true; things can't be this easy. Anyone relate?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No woman is too good for you, maybe you're too good for them but not the other way around. This is supposed to be easy IMO, if you want a challenge go get one :)
 
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Agreed - its just surprising how easy it is. Its a pleasant surprise after the blood sweat and tears of my AFC days to find things this easy. Back then I'd have crawled over broken glass for a girl of half this quality. Its nice but a little disconcerting at first to realise your game is up there now!
 
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