"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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is this good?

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I was thinking about going on a date with this girl to ice skating. So were skating along
i say 'Jessica, I wish you could skate backwards' and
shed say like 'Why?" and then maybe i could stop her and put my hand on the side of her face and
i would say something like 'Because then i could focus all of my attention on you, and nobody eles' or say something like
'Then i could look at you the whole time... "
and if she takes it right, go in and gently kiss her.
what do yall think?


then i was thinking on the drive home, i could be like
'so now that were official, im going to let you pick where we go next.' or something like that to get a second date.

Thanks!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hmm... The skating is ok. Instead try this:

You: I wish you could skate backwards
Her: Why?
You: (Pause) I bet you a kiss you can't do it
Her: Alright I'll prove you wrong

You catch her plus the kiss is a prize for her.

Drive Home think about something else. NEVER state what you are. It makes her think about what you guys are. Leading up to you ending up in her mind a lot. Maybe on the drive home you go:

You: You wanna see if i can drive backwards?
Her: Yes.

(JOKE Don't use that)
 

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Originally posted by The Master Disaster
Hmm... The skating is ok. Instead try this:

You: I wish you could skate backwards
Her: Why?
You: (Pause) I bet you a kiss you can't do it
Her: Alright I'll prove you wrong

You catch her plus the kiss is a prize for her.

Drive Home think about something else. NEVER state what you are. It makes her think about what you guys are. Leading up to you ending up in her mind a lot. Maybe on the drive home you go:

You: You wanna see if i can drive backwards?
Her: Yes.

(JOKE Don't use that)
 

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What an influx of nooby shoobys. Read around the website brizzo.
 

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Originally posted by The Master Disaster
Hmm... The skating is ok. Instead try this:

You: I wish you could skate backwards
Her: Why?
You: (Pause) I bet you a kiss you can't do it
Her: Alright I'll prove you wrong

You catch her plus the kiss is a prize for her.

thats good one]
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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official after one date?

using sh!tty lines to get a kiss?

get a date with her and then start thinking about these things. no, wait, get a date and don't think about those things at all.
 
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