"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I want to gain weight.

It's hard to eat 6 meals a day because of school, but on the weekends, I try to eat 6 at least one of the days (Saturday is my free day so I don't eat six).

I just take the meats I cooked the night before, and eat as much of it as I can for every meal. I try to eat carbs only in the first 3 or 4 meals, and then cut them off for the day.



Schoolday diet:



6:00 AM)

-Beef with veggies

-oatmeal, ganola bars, and/or bananas and apples.



12:30 PM)

-School lunch, which is usually some kind of chicken sandwhich from a fast food place (next month I am going to bring my own lunch to school, which will be beef/veggies - I'll deal with the chicken sandwhiches for now since I already payed for it)

-granola bars, bananas, apples, etc.



3:00 PM)

-3-4 boiled eggs

-more carbs



6:00 PM)

-Beef with veggies



9:00 PM)

-Grilled chicken breast

-1 tbsp flaxseed oil



I drink some kind of carbohyrate drink after my workout (forgot the name of it) that gives me something like 80-100g of carbs. I usually workout after my 3:00 meal.

Also, I don't want to take any protein shakes. They make me want to use the bathroom every 30 mins, which makes me very uncomfortable at school.


Is this good enough?
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ANd whats wrong with a shake before and after a workout? Go to Trueprotein.com they have a whey shake that causes little to no gassy sideffects and what not.
 
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I work out either after my 3:00 PM meal or after my 6:00 PM meal.

As a previous shake-maniac (drinking up to 4 shakes a day), I am through with this stupid stuff. I no longer drink milk or shakes, and I will only eat solid food (man food!). No more creatine, glutamine, or vitamin C. The only exception will be my quick carb drink, which I take right after my workout.
 

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future_strongguy said:
how much do you weigh? BF? How much of each food are you eating? What are the totals for each macro? How many meals do you miss a week? Have you been gaining from it? Whats your training look like?
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I weight 155 lbs. Since doing this, I have been gaining about 1 pound per week. I don't know how much body fat I have, but I can barely see my abs.

I'm not sure how much I am eating in terms of the beef, but I think I'm getting about 200-250g of carbs per day. For ever meal, I take the meat I am eating and eat as much of it as I can (with the exception of the stupid school meal I get, but that will change next month), then I grab some carbs and eat some more.

This is what I eat monday to friday, with no exceptions or cheat meals. On Saturday I take the day off, and eat whatever I want, and on Sunday I throw in an extra meal of eggs or beef, since I don't have school.

I don't understand the question "What are the totals for each macro?"

I do Stronglifts 5x5, and I play tennis.
 

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future_strongguy said:
Schoolday diet: I'VE PROVIDED SOME OPTIONS AND SUGGESTED SOME CHANGES


6:00 AM)

-Beef with veggies ALSO GOOD IS A 4 EGG OMELETE WITH VEGES AND MEAT SUCH AS BACON

-oatmeal, ganola bars, and/or bananas and apples. GRANOLA BARS HAVE A LOT A BAD SUGARS IN THEM GENERALL - AND COULD MAKE YOU FAT, I'D STICK WITH A CUP OF OATMEAL WITH FRUITS SUCH AS BLUEBERRIES, APPLES, BANANA'S AND YOU CAN ADD ALMONDS




12:30 PM)

-School lunch, which is usually some kind of chicken sandwhich from a fast food place (next month I am going to bring my own lunch to school, which will be beef/veggies - I'll deal with the chicken sandwhiches for now since I already payed for it) CHICKEN SANDWICH ARE USUALLYFINE AS LONG AS ITS NOT FRIED WITH TONS OF MAYO - I WOULD SAY FOR ANOTHER OPTION YOU CAN MAKE YOURSELF A SHRIMP OR GRILLED CHICKEN SALAD WITH OLIVE OIL AND VINEGAR

-granola bars, bananas, apples, etc.



3:00 PM)

-3-4 boiled eggs

-more carbs
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IF THIS IS WHERE YOU WORK OUT, YOU SHOULD HAVE 50-70 CARBS BEFORE YOU WORK OUT SUCH AS BROWN RICE OR POTATOES - YOU COULD PROBABLY LEAVE OUT EGGS FOR NOW - SUCKS TO WORK OUT FULL
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YOU NEED TO HAVE A POST WORKOUT MEAL AFTER YOU WORK OUT, NOT JUST A CARB DRINK

---30 MINUTES AFTER CARB DRINK

THIS IS WHERE I WOULD HAVE BEEF, VEGES, AND /OR EGGS + FISH OIL CAPSULES + POTATOES OR RICE



6:00 PM) MOVE THIS HOWEVER FURTHER YOU NEED IT SUCH AS 7-730

-Beef with veggies



9:00 PM)

-Grilled chicken breast IF 9 PM IS WHEN YOU SLEEP THEN THIS IS PERFECT

-1 tbsp flaxseed oil, GET FISH OIL CAPSULES AND TAKE THEM HERE TOO

**********GALLON OF WATER A DAY*********

Is this good enough?
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Thanks for the reply. Some things I'd like to say:

-I don't wanna get fat, so adios to the granola bars!
-The chicken sandwiches I eat are always grilled.
-I don't work out right after I eat the eggs. I try wait as long as possible, so the minute I get home I'll be right on time for my next meal. So it looks more like this:

3:00 PM) Eat
5:00 PM) workout
6:00 PM) Get home and eat (this meal would be my carb drink with my beef)

-I'll get some carbs in before I workout as you suggested
-I'll get some fish oil capsules
-I definitely drink about two gallons of water a day. I think I get in almost a full gallon before school is finished.
-I sleep at 10:00 PM
 
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