"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is this girl too good to be true? you be the judge

DJ4Life

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Hey fella djs, i met this girl two months ago, and she just blew my mind of what i should expect from women in the future

She's the type of girls you can't help but glance at or even stare at when she walks passed you on the streets, and i knew that from first person experience when i hung out with her and looked at how people on the streets reacted when they see her

But she's not just pure eye candy, honestly speaking she's probably the smartest chick i have yet to meet. Her grandpa majors in history (my fave subject) and worked as a high government official, her dad graduated from Harvard as doctor of psychology, her mom taught English literature at a university, and this is just to explain her family intellect and social background. She's a top student in school, and the type of girl that you can talk with her about anything from philosophy, politics, history, music, to celebrity gossip for hours.

She plays the piano, paint, and works out routinely in gym. Personality wise she is very friendly, and geniunely concern and cared for other people, fun loving, independant, extremely loyal to boyfriends, ambitious as to know exactly what she wants in life, emotionally tough so no drama or any ***** bs.

If i have to point out her possible flaws, i would say that she is extremely family orientated. In fact she dumped three of her last bf because her mom wouldn't approve them. She is very conservative of her behavior and the way she dresses: nothing that reveals too much skin or provocative. It may be a bad thing, but personally i don't mind it much, in fact i appreciate that. I'm tired and sick of seeing hoes and it's nice to finally see a girl that knows how to take care of herself and actually respects her own body.

She doens't have a smoking hot body as well, and that's why i would rate her an 8: she has a stunner of a gorgeous face though.

As DJs we are taught that no girls are special or unique, and we should treat them all with the same grain of salt, but this girl may have just changed my mind: perhaps there ARE girls who are one of a kind after all.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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each person has a different view of what they want, and what is for them.. that said, she's not perfect, just get to know her... it will change your mind.. believe me.. give it 6 months from the point you two start dating and the true colors will show...
 

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DJ4Life said:
Hey fella djs, i met this girl two months ago, and she just blew my mind of what i should expect from women in the future

She's the type of girls you can't help but glance at or even stare at when she walks passed you on the streets, and i knew that from first person experience when i hung out with her and looked at how people on the streets reacted when they see her

But she's not just pure eye candy, honestly speaking she's probably the smartest chick i have yet to meet. Her grandpa majors in history (my fave subject) and worked as a high government official, her dad graduated from Harvard as doctor of psychology, her mom taught English literature at a university, and this is just to explain her family intellect and social background. She's a top student in school, and the type of girl that you can talk with her about anything from philosophy, politics, history, music, to celebrity gossip for hours.

She plays the piano, paint, and works out routinely in gym. Personality wise she is very friendly, and geniunely concern and cared for other people, fun loving, independant, extremely loyal to boyfriends, ambitious as to know exactly what she wants in life, emotionally tough so no drama or any ***** bs.

If i have to point out her possible flaws, i would say that she is extremely family orientated. In fact she dumped three of her last bf because her mom wouldn't approve them. She is very conservative of her behavior and the way she dresses: nothing that reveals too much skin or provocative. It may be a bad thing, but personally i don't mind it much, in fact i appreciate that. I'm tired and sick of seeing hoes and it's nice to finally see a girl that knows how to take care of herself and actually respects her own body.

She doens't have a smoking hot body as well, and that's why i would rate her an 8: she has a stunner of a gorgeous face though.

As DJs we are taught that no girls are special or unique, and we should treat them all with the same grain of salt, but this girl may have just changed my mind: perhaps there ARE girls who are one of a kind after all.
Well, see how it goes.

Some girls a much more girlfriend material than others, you have to decide who to fvck, who to leave, and who to have an exclusive relationship with.
 
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