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Is this girl setting me up? Oppinions? Caitlin

AlexLefty

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So basically, my school is playing this game right now called Senior Assassination. The winner gets 500 dollars. The game lasts for like 2 more weeks. How you play: You receive what's called a Kill Card, which has a persons name on it. You have to kill the person on your Kill Card by shooting them with a water gun or getting them wet, and when you do, you get a point and then you get their Kill Card. Person with the most cards at the end of the game wins the money. Basically, I've been on high alert these past few days, and I'm fvcking paranoid.

Anyways, this has to do with Caitlin because as you may know I had a chance to hook up with her at prom and missed it. So I started texting her after prom and she wasn't being very responsive, she said she had a boyfriend etc., so we stopped texting and then she randomly texts me and is telling me to come over and stuff because I can use her place to hide out at, for senior assassination.

But here's the thing, she doesn't go to my school, and I'm like 98% sure she has no connections with the person that is trying to kill me, but I'm still not sure if she is setting me up or not. She may be working with someone to get me killed, or she may want the D. Here's our texts, read on and decide for yourself....


(copy and pasted from my email so srry it's sloppy)



Caitlin: They warned you about me?? Oh what happened???

•Lefty: ha yeah so get this
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Caitlin: ( May 15 10:25 AM ) :‎ Tell me!
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 10:28 AM ) :‎ so the other day i was at gateway and city creek shopping with my friends elisa and kayla for bro tanks because you know..that's what the cool kids
alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 10:28 AM ) :‎ do
alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 10:29 AM ) :‎ anyways....walking out of the store i saw this girl who from
behind..looked exactly like you. i started shouting at her like caitlin, hey!
alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 10:30 AM ) :‎ and of course she didn't answer so i went up to say hi and when i did she
turned around..
alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 10:30 AM ) :‎ and literally started screaming at the top of her lungs!
she was like 'wtf who are you ahh'
alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 10:31 AM ) :‎ so it freaked me the **** out because she was screaming, and everyone else started staring at me and were like wttfff..
alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 10:32 AM ) :‎ so basically, because of you i almost got arrested.
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Caitlin: ( May 15 10:33 AM ) :‎ Hahahahaha no way that's funny
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 10:37 AM ) :‎ you have no idea caitlin
alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 10:38 AM ) :‎ while were on the subject, let's hang out soon
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Caitlin: ( May 15 10:39 AM ) :‎ Im so sorry haha. Maybe you don't know what I look like enough...
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 10:39 AM ) :‎ ^previous mssg
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Caitlin: ( May 15 10:51 AM ) :‎ Haha okay sounds good
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 11:08 AM ) :‎ well, i gotta work today and tomorrow, but i'll see you after school on thursday
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Caitlin: ( May 15 11:11 AM ) :‎ Thursday? What's happening Thursday?
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 11:19 AM ) :‎ we're hanging out
alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 11:19 AM ) :‎ literally just said that
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Caitlin: ( May 15 11:21 AM ) :‎ Why Thursday?
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 11:24 AM ) :‎ work today and tomorow, i've got a job now, im a busy man
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Caitlin: ( May 15 11:29 AM ) :‎ I have work Thursday
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 11:36 AM ) :‎ weekend plans?
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Caitlin: ( May 15 11:41 AM ) :‎ Yeah I have plans Saturday and maybe Friday. I'll let you know

Lefty: Oh, well i wasn't asking

Caitlin: ( May 15 11:45 AM ) :‎ Ha okay fine....
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 11:56 AM ) :‎ So. Romantic, candlelit date. I'm cooking Campbell's.
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Caitlin: ( May 15 11:57 AM ) :‎ Ha I have a boyfriend. That might be a problem
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 12:00 PM ) :‎ What? Boyfriend who?? He can have dinner too but then he'll have to leave after.
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Caitlin: ( May 15 12:03 PM ) :‎ His name is Dom. Ha why what do you want to do after?
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 15 12:04 PM ) :‎ Who's asking?
Caitlin: ( May 15 12:05 PM ) :‎ Im asking

----These mssgs were lost. Basically I started asking her if she knew a girl named Candeece, she said she did, and I said "Weird..." or something like that and she never texted back..until now...read on.

•Caitlin: Why were you asking me about candeece? We're not good friends so yo
Caitlin: ( May 20 12:07 PM ) :‎ u can tell me

alex.lefkowitz ( May 20 12:23 PM ) :‎ Haha idk..don't worry about it
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Caitlin: ( May 20 12:27 PM ) :‎ Okay...you suck. How was your weekend
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 20 12:34 PM ) :‎ Pretty good..I'm on high alert right now because it's senior assassination at my
school..so basically
been chillin' like a boss ;p
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Caitlin: ( May 20 12:58 PM ) :‎ Hahahahaha no way! That's fun ours isn't til next Monday. If you ne
Caitlin: ( May 20 12:58 PM ) :‎ ed somewhere to hideout you can hang out with me! Im not doin much
Caitlin: ( May 20 12:58 PM ) :‎ this week
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 20 1:05 PM ) :‎ Haha alright, I'm mostly chilling at my friends and grandmas for a safe house..but if i need an extra one I'll let you know
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Caitlin: ( May 20 1:09 PM ) :‎ Ohh ouch....okay.
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 20 1:10 PM ) :‎ Are you going to school this week?
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Caitlin: ( May 20 1:11 PM ) :‎ Uhh haha kinda. Im going to half of my classes. Why?
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 20 1:12 PM ) :‎ Just wondering, i might need a safe house during school..I only have 1 ib test left tomorrow and i'm basically done with school.
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Caitlin: ( May 20 1:13 PM ) :‎ Oh dang! You guys don't have safe hours during school hours?? But
Caitlin: ( May 20 1:13 PM ) :‎ yeah you can chill at my house
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 20 1:14 PM ) :‎ Yeah. You'll be home?
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Caitlin: ( May 20 1:15 PM ) :‎ How about you text me and I'll tell you if I am. I most likely will
Caitlin: ( May 20 1:15 PM ) :‎ be home!
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 20 1:16 PM ) :‎ Aight I'll call you.
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Caitlin: ( May 20 1:16 PM ) :‎ Cool. So what's new?
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 20 1:21 PM ) :‎ Haha not much really, just the everyday life experiences..my entire lifestyle has basically turned into a full time adventure.
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Caitlin: ( May 20 1:25 PM ) :‎ Really? How so? Just because of senior assassin? Or because your li
Caitlin: ( May 20 1:25 PM ) :‎ fe is generally fun?
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 20 1:27 PM ) :‎ Actually both.
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Caitlin: ( May 20 1:30 PM ) :‎ That's pretty cool haha. Im nervous for our game! We call it gotcha
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alex.lefkowitz ( May 20 1:36 PM ) :‎ Ha make sure you have an alliance and you'll be fine
alex.lefkowitz ( May 20 1:37 PM ) :‎ But we're heading out on a mission now so gotta go, bye.
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Caitlin: ( May 20 1:41 PM ) :‎ Oh scary okay good luck!


So, she was being a b1tch at first, and then started being really responsive and was even initiating convos. What do you think is going on here?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LearningSlowly

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She thinks youre cool and wants to hang out with you, but she has a boyfriend so she doesnt want it to be a date. I don't think you should be worried about assassination stuff unless she's close with a lot of people from your school.
 

apocolipto

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I say go for it,,what Learning said.If she really sets you up,then she is a b1tch!Go on then,move on.
 

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Even if she sets you up this seems like a good way to initiate something
 

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AlexLefty

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Ok, so I think I'll trust her then.

And LS, idk, I tend to agree with Nick. She had a boyfriend when she went to prom, and she hooked up with a different guy - and this is when I had the chance to steal her from that guy and hook up with her.

I think she just wants to hang out, but subliminally somewhere in the back of her mind she is curious about hooking up with me, or else she never would have invited me over to her house, somewhere in her mind, even like 1% she wants it. And I think I can use this to escalate and make a move.

I have 2 things going for me: She wantED it - She cheated on her bf.

I have 1 thing going against me: She has a bf.

I'll hit her up tomorrow most likely. I don't want it to be on the weekend because I don't want her to be busy.
 
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