"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is this girl pulling wool over my eyes?

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Okay here's the scoop.

I worked with her, but we never talked. We did exchange smiles though. She quit and I never saw her again... until I ran into her at the bar. We kinda looked at each other with the "I know you from somewhere look". And I went up and talked to her. We were both kinda drunk, and she ended up telling me she broke up with her boyfriend because he was controlling and verbally abusive and she didn't want to be around him anymore. We chit chatted and one my friends said "Hey man, let's go." So I said "We'll see ya later", and then she just gave me her number. I thought, okay cool. So I called her yesterday and asked if she'd be around on the weekend, she said "yeah".

Well anyway, one of my friends (who was at the bar with me) said before I started talking to her she told him her boyfriend broke up with her because she partied too much. Now that's not what she told me. And my friend wouldn't lie.

Should I be concerned?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women are good liars. So, could your friend if he likes her too. Only way to find out is through her actions.
 
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First off, you met her from work and you guys checked each other out, then she quit and you didn't see her again until that night at the bar. As you were leaving she offered her number to you? Then you call her up and ask if she's free on the weekend, she says yes. Dude, she's definitely interested in you. As far as what your friend said, it's hearsay. You don't even know her yet.

Worse case scenerio here is a rebound. It might not even be that.

Give her a chance.
 
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Kill your friend just to be sure he's not trying to play you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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