Is this girl just a tease???

[cordoncordon]

The bad thing is, she has my expensive sunglasses. For some reason, it seems she doesn't want to return it to me. I don't know how to ask her to give it back... lol.

Ummm, ask for them back. They are yours. Be a man. If this was some ug 4 that you didn't care about, I can promise you that you would have NO problem asking for your property.

This girl has next to no interest in you. She is totally playing you, and you are letting her. She is laughing behind your back about all this believe me. Sorry to be so blunt but the truth must be told. Find someone to hang out with that doesn't play games and that appreciates being with you. Relationships are not supposed to be this hard.

Good luck.

 

[RSanders219]

Just don't talk to her, go find other chicks that aren't as stupid as her. Let her know that she isn't worth YOUR time and let her move on.

If you have oneitis, my suggestion would be to follow up on personal goals. Maybe pick up more hours at work, go to the gym (or go more), any little thing you can do for self improvement. It's always worked for me. Good luck my man!

 

[MartyMcFly]

Fvck! I don't know why I verbalized it... well.. that's done. But I did try to kiss her after verbalizing...

Well, let me see if this is still salvageable...

The bad thing is, she has my expensive sunglasses. For some reason, it seems she doesn't want to return it to me. I don't know how to ask her to give it back... lol.

You and I are in the same boat bro. Iverbalized my feelings to this girl I'm seeing and she's backed off. You gotta let her tell you she wants to make it a srs thing. Its not your job as the man to do that.

 

[Cowboy1015]

Ok. So I have not initiated any contact with her. But she still texts me and last night she just called me. I just have to blew her off coz I was at the gym. But when I returned call, she didn't pick up.

I guess all I got to do is get my sunglasses back and move on. And if she really likes me, she'll make it happen.

 

[Cowboy1015]

Ok. I really don't understand this girl...
She just called me today while driving to work and had a pretty good talk.
I think this girl taking this whole thing really slow...

 

[Johnnyventana]

Maybe she is. Maybe previously, she herself has fd things up by going in too hot. Either way, stay on guard. And don't be played. And do NOT let her know how you feel.

 

[Chickfight]

Jesus ****ing Christ. I hope you are a troll, otherwise you are just pathetic.

 

[AlexDP]

Ok. I really don't understand this girl...
She just called me today while driving to work and had a pretty good talk.
I think this girl taking this whole thing really slow...

You told her you like her and she didn't act upon it. Then you tell us she still has your sunglasses. She is obviously toying with you. Maybe she'll decide you're a sort of fun toy and she'll keep you around longer. You'll have a "relationship". Problem is though she holds so much power over you that she can walk away at any time. You can't. And she knows. So she'll mess with you some more. Whatever this might become, it won't be any fun for you. Drop her.

 

[Cowboy1015]

Jesus ****ing Christ. I hope you are a troll, otherwise you are just pathetic.

all i can say sir is get the fvck off this thread =D... you are pathetic

 

[Cowboy1015]

Ok. She is not a tease.

Now I know she's into me. The mistake I did, as everyone was saying was vocalizing my feelings. She said she was surprised when I told her I like her and it was too fast. Maybe it was too fast when I tried to kiss her.

Anyhow, the following week... after a lot of kino'ing as we watch movies at my place... we had sex.

So as a lesson to everyone... "never talk about your feelings... just action"