Is this girl into me? Im not sure if this counts as initiating.

[ChemGod]

Ok so I cant tell if this girl is into me or not. I met her in the beginning of this semester in one of my classes. Shes a HB9. She told me she needs to get to know a guy before she knows if she likes them. Ive been talking to her a lot lately, and Im like the AMOG in the class. When the class first started, I saw her and though she was attractive, but did not consider her because she was like 2 inches taller than me. Shes been giving me IOIs. But recently, shes been initiating things. Or so it seems to me anyway.

Just This week ( its wednesday ) - On monday, I had to study so I went to the library. She sat down next to me and started talking to me and studying. We had a really fun conversation, she told me she really likes talking to me - none of us got to study much. I told her about the girls that have recently been throwing themselves at me, and said " can you blame them?" And she agreed with me that they couldnt be blamed haha.

Then, yesterday night she texted me saying this :
Her :Hey you said you did the NMRs right?
Me: Um I didnt, but someone gave me the answers.
Her: Okay Nevermind
Me: Lol why?
Her: I was gonna say lets go to Starbucks and do them cause Im about to start right now but its too late Im already at home in my PJs.
Me: That actually sounds like fun. Just wear your PJs :]. Ill wear mine ( theyre just boxers). haha jk, I have to study for my math exam tommorrow. Next time tho, were meeting up in our PJs haha.
Her: Lolll aright good luck on your math
Me: lol thanks
** I would like to point out that she NEVER asked me for the answers even though I said I had them.


But today, I saw her and she told me she went to Dennys with this other guy that night- this guy that was **** blocking me before when I was telling her to sit with me - Hes just a boring beta c0ckblock, hes got no personality and no chance. Before, I was flattered she thought about me to ask, but after she said this I kind of didnt like her. But then later we were talking and she said right after I said no to her, this guy texted her asking for help - she only initiated with me. When she was telling me this, she commented on how I wouldnt have gotten out of my PJs for her. My friend told me that this other guy in our group asked her if she wanted to study, and she told him she likes to study alone. Anyway, I didnt think too much of this.

Then I was talking to her again, and we were talking about our exam. We both got As, but I scored a little higher. I told her Im just smarter, then she asked if I wanted to bet. I thought ok, shes gonna bet me something stupid. She then said that if she scored higher, I would have to buy her icecream, and If i scored higher she would buy.

Before when we talked, she also mentioned how we should go to the beach over summer break. I asked her to go to the beach before but it was as a group. When she asked me though, it was just me and she hadnt told anyone else about it. I also told her I would be able to pick her up with my arms - She didnt tell me I couldnt because she didnt want me to. She basically challenged me to do it, saying I wasnt physically capable when its obvious I am lol. (Ive been working out so im pretty ripped now )

I always see guys hit on her, but I just laid back, knowing im better then all of them. Now it seems shes comming to me, what do you guys think? Am i reading too much into this? She initiated twice within a day - asking me to go to starbucks, then betting me icecream. She kept saying how shes gonna have a hard time choosing what flavor.

Also, two weeks ago during lab ( we have lab every friday, almost all day), she mentioned something about wanting to play soccor. I just left and she texted me saying she thought we were gonna play. Than this last friday, we were doing our lab, it was a group project and her group finished before mine. She waited like 30 minutes for me to finish, then we played soccor- me and my friend and her and another girl.
This girl is like 2 inches taller than me lol. So i didnt really consider her, now Im started to because shes super hot and has a really nice personality and seems to be initiating. Thoughts?

 

[pyros]

It is not that complicated. You think she likes you? ask her out.

Next time you text her, tell her to go to grab a drink, or to do whatever activity just the two of you. If she agrees, you go there, and you two have fun, you kiss her.
If she gives you an excuse, or if she agrees but she wants to include more people, she's not into you.

This is the only way to see if she is into you or not. No need to overthink it, just ask her out on a damn date, and if she agrees kiss her at the end.

P.S.
If she suggests an activity for just you an her before you ask her out, go out with her, have fun, kiss her etc. If she likes your kiss you're in, if she rejects you, you're not.

 

[ChemGod]

Lol thanks guys. My problem now is that I always doubt myself with girls I actually like. Im gonna see her tomorrow, if I still get good vibes from her I'll text her later and ask her out.

 

[backseatjuan]

She texted you, so she is interested in you. I wouldn't say she is into you, but attraction is not a choice. Take her out somewhere fun with a nice transition into evening and night fun. I'd say some bbq and vodka will do. Take her a to picnic into your local park, with live fire and grill and alcohol.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

I swear these huge walls of text you younger guys write up and post here wondering if she's into you....wtf? If you keep up your current behavior, you're on the express lane to the friendzone I can tell you that much. Stop being so "nice" to her.

She challenges you saying you can't pick her up? Do it right then and there. Throw her up over your shoulder with p*ssy up high in the air and pretend you're doing some caveman sh!t. Throw in a nice spanking while she's up there.

She bets you she's smarter? Fine, buy her ice cream if she wins, then feel her up while she's eating. You win? Screw ice cream, tell her she has to give you a blow job.

This isn't complicated. Stop staying in the friendzone like you're doing now and grow a pair. The previous replies are spot on, start escalating.

 

[ChemGod]

I swear these huge walls of text you younger guys write up and post here wondering if she's into you....wtf? If you keep up your current behavior, you're on the express lane to the friendzone I can tell you that much. Stop being so "nice" to her.

She challenges you saying you can't pick her up? Do it right then and there. Throw her up over your shoulder with p*ssy up high in the air and pretend you're doing some caveman sh!t. Throw in a nice spanking while she's up there.

She bets you she's smarter? Fine, buy her ice cream if she wins, then feel her up while she's eating. You win? Screw ice cream, tell her she has to give you a blow job.

This isn't complicated. Stop staying in the friendzone like you're doing now and grow a pair. The previous replies are spot on, start escalating.

Youre right, I need to stop being such a pvssy. Ill ask her out soon. Im not that nice to her though, I tease her a lot and when I mentioned that Nice people make life better, she told me she shouldnt hang out with me anymore - inferring I wasnt nice lol.

 

[Igetit!]

Ok so I cant tell if this girl is into me or not.

I read through the whole thread,saw some of the subsequent responses and additional info you gave.

Based on everything you've said so far,my first impression is NO.....that she DOESN'T LIKE you. I think she likes you as a person/as a friend,but as for being attracted to you......NO.

I met her in the beginning of this semester in one of my classes.

You met her at the beginning of this semester. You mean somewhere round the beginning of January....some 4 MONTHS ago.

So 1/3 of a year has passed by and yet,no date has taken place,nor have you asked her out.......but you "hang out" and talk a lot.

My answer is NO.

Shes a HB9.

You mentioned how you weren't sure if this chick suggesting Starbucks,betting you ice cream,and talking about wanting to play soccer counts as initiating.......but you also say she's a HB9.

Umm.....HB9s DON'T ASK GUYS OUT. They're so bombarded with male attention,they don't have to. So no....I don't think her starbucks and soccer suggestions count as initiating. It's possible that she likes the fact that she FINALLY found a guy to hang out with who's not all up on her,hitting on her. Good thing for her. For you.....well....sounds like a oneway trip to friendzone city.


Again.....I could be wrong,just my take based on the info provided.

She told me she needs to get to know a guy before she knows if she likes them.

In layman's terms,this is what is known as HORSESH1T.

You should have been flirting and hitting on her yourself instead of having a discussion like this with her anyway.

Ive been talking to her a lot lately,

About what? Cause if it's not about you and HER,you're just wasting your time.

In order for a date to happen,SOMEBODY has to risk REJECTION. It can be you,or it can be the girl.....but SOMEBODY has to do it. And 95% of the time....it's gonna be us guys.

Just This week ( its wednesday ) - On monday, I had to study so I went to the library. She sat down next to me and started talking to me and studying. We had a really fun conversation, she told me she really likes talking to me- none of us got to study much.

She told you she likes talking to you...

Ohhh SH1T...

Now I see what the Starbucks,soccer,and ice cream invites were all about....

So you two can get together and TALK more....

Like GIRLFRIENDS do. :nervous:

Then, yesterday night she texted me saying this :
Her :Hey you said you did the NMRs right?
Me: Um I didnt, but someone gave me the answers.
Her: Okay Nevermind
Me: Lol why?
Her: I was gonna say lets go to Starbucks and do them cause Im about to start right now but its too late Im already at home in my PJs.
Me: That actually sounds like fun. Just wear your PJs :]. Ill wear mine ( theyre just boxers). haha jk, I have to study for my math exam tommorrow. Next time tho, were meeting up in our PJs haha.
Her: Lolll aright good luck on your math
Me: lol thanks
** I would like to point out that she NEVER asked me for the answers even though I said I had them.

So you two talk and text a lot. And in all that talking and texting,I haven't seen ONE OUNCE of sexuality from either side.....nothing from you,nor from her. Lot of joking around,lot of playing,lots of "ha,ha" joking and kidding,but no FULL GROWN MAN showing sexual interest in a beautiful woman.

But today, I saw her and she told me she went to Dennys with this other guy that night-

Now this is interesting......

She sent you a text asking you questions about schoolwork. She was going to suggest going to starbucks and you two do classwork there,but then said nevermind because she was already at home,in her pajamas.. ..

Then the next time you saw her,she told you she went out to Denny with another guy....on that SAME NIGHT.

So after telling you she didn't want to meet you at Starbucks because she was in her pajamas,she GOT DRESSED and went out to Denny with another guy.

Hmmm....

this guy that was **** blocking me before when I was telling her to sit with me - Hes just a boring beta c0ckblock, hes got no personality and no chance.

I see. So he's boring,beta,got no personality,and got no chance with this girl.....in YOUR opinion. Hmm.... I'm kinda curious about something. Tell me.....

This "boring",no personality/"beta" guy.....how did he manage to get this HB9 to have dinner with him on the SAME NIGHT she told you she was in for the night cause she was already in her pajamas?

He essentially got a date with her....while you're HERE asking US if she's into you or not.


How'd that no personality-beta pull that off??? Just curious....

Before, I was flattered she thought about me to ask, but after she said this I kind of didnt like her.

So when she told you she went out to Denny with this other guy,you stopped liking her....

May I ask why? He pursued her...CLEARLY MADE his interest known.

You've known her since the beginning of the semester (January),and have yet to do so.

Then I was talking to her again, and we were talking about our exam. We both got As, but I scored a little higher. I told her Im just smarter, then she asked if I wanted to bet. I thought ok, shes gonna bet me something stupid. She then said that if she scored higher, I would have to buy her icecream, and If i scored higher she would buy.

Before when we talked, she also mentioned how we should go to the beach over summer break. I asked her to go to the beach before but it was as a group. When she asked me though, it was just me and she hadnt told anyone else about it. I also told her I would be able to pick her up with my arms - She didnt tell me I couldnt because she didnt want me to. She basically challenged me to do it, saying I wasnt physically capable when its obvious I am lol. (Ive been working out so im pretty ripped now )

You see all this? A buncha BULL-SH1T. Just a bunch of playing and joking around....no serious romantic interest from either side.

You may "bond" to her through this type of talk,but since it's void of attraction,you'll bond at the level the conversation is at.....playing,"ha-ha",and joking around..........FRIENDSHIP.

I always see guys hit on her, but I just laid back, knowing im better then all of them.

Yeah,well....

Still don't see how that no personality beta got her out on a date,while you....(who's CLEARLY BETTER than him) got some lame BS excuse from her about being in for the night cause she was in her pajamas.

Stop staying in the friendzone like you're doing now and grow a pair.

It's probably too late for that. That's the problem with the friendzone....you can't just up and decide you've had enough and want out. He'd have to start acting and behaving different a.k.a.....being SEXUAL....and that's not a side of him she's ever seen,that's not who she's been asking to Starbucks and going to play soccer with.

Hell....at this point,the no personality,beta dude has a better chance with her than he does....(and I'm SERIOUS).

 

[9Volt]

I read through the whole thread,saw some of the subsequent responses and additional info you gave.

Based on everything you've said so far,my first impression is NO.....that she DOESN'T LIKE you. I think she likes you as a person/as a friend,but as for being attracted to you......NO.




You met her at the beginning of this semester. You mean somewhere round the beginning of January....some 4 MONTHS ago.

So 1/3 of a year has passed by and yet,no date has taken place,nor have you asked her out.......but you "hang out" and talk a lot.

My answer is NO.



You mentioned how you weren't sure if this chick suggesting Starbucks,betting you ice cream,and talking about wanting to play soccer counts as initiating.......but you also say she's a HB9.

Umm.....HB9s DON'T ASK GUYS OUT. They're so bombarded with male attention,they don't have to. So no....I don't think her starbucks and soccer suggestions count as initiating. It's possible that she likes the fact that she FINALLY found a guy to hang out with who's not all up on her,hitting on her. Good thing for her. For you.....well....sounds like a oneway trip to friendzone city.


Again.....I could be wrong,just my take based on the info provided.



In layman's terms,this is what is known as HORSESH1T.

You should have been flirting and hitting on her yourself instead of having a discussion like this with her anyway.




About what? Cause if it's not about you and HER,you're just wasting your time.

In order for a date to happen,SOMEBODY has to risk REJECTION. It can be you,or it can be the girl.....but SOMEBODY has to do it. And 95% of the time....it's gonna be us guys.




She told you she likes talking to you...

Ohhh SH1T...

Now I see what the Starbucks,soccer,and ice cream invites were all about....

So you two can get together and TALK more....

Like GIRLFRIENDS do. :nervous:





So you two talk and text a lot. And in all that talking and texting,I haven't seen ONE OUNCE of sexuality from either side.....nothing from you,nor from her. Lot of joking around,lot of playing,lots of "ha,ha" joking and kidding,but no FULL GROWN MAN showing sexual interest in a beautiful woman.



Now this is interesting......

She sent you a text asking you questions about schoolwork. She was going to suggest going to starbucks and you two do classwork there,but then said nevermind because she was already at home,in her pajamas.. ..

Then the next time you saw her,she told you she went out to Denny with another guy....on that SAME NIGHT.

So after telling you she didn't want to meet you at Starbucks because she was in her pajamas,she GOT DRESSED and went out to Denny with another guy.

Hmmm....





I see. So he's boring,beta,got no personality,and got no chance with this girl.....in YOUR opinion. Hmm.... I'm kinda curious about something. Tell me.....

This "boring",no personality/"beta" guy.....how did he manage to get this HB9 to have dinner with him on the SAME NIGHT she told you she was in for the night cause she was already in her pajamas?

He essentially got a date with her....while you're HERE asking US if she's into you or not.


How'd that no personality-beta pull that off??? Just curious....




So when she told you she went out to Denny with this other guy,you stopped liking her....

May I ask why? He pursued her...CLEARLY MADE his interest known.

You've known her since the beginning of the semester (January),and have yet to do so.





You see all this? A buncha BULL-SH1T. Just a bunch of playing and joking around....no serious romantic interest from either side.

You may "bond" to her through this type of talk,but since it's void of attraction,you'll bond at the level the conversation is at.....playing,"ha-ha",and joking around..........FRIENDSHIP.





Yeah,well....

Still don't see how that no personality beta got her out on a date,while you....(who's CLEARLY BETTER than him) got some lame BS excuse from her about being in for the night cause she was in her pajamas.



It's probably too late for that. That's the problem with the friendzone....you can't just up and decide you've had enough and want out. He'd have to start acting and behaving different a.k.a.....being SEXUAL....and that's not a side of him she's ever seen,that's not who she's been asking to Starbucks and going to play soccer with.

Hell....at this point,the no personality,beta dude has a better chance with her than he does....(and I'm SERIOUS).

Spot on. That's exactly what I was thinking. O.P's playing safe "What If" fantasyland nonsense and following her lead of "friendship first" instead of just sh1tting or getting of the pot while "boring beta guy with no chance" already got this hot 9 out of her pjs.

O.P is keeping nice and safe which he may just find out she eventually starts seeing "boring beta guy" while he gets angry when reality slaps him in the head because he was too afraid to find out for a FACT if she's really interested or not.

The safe fantasy is always easier to deal with than finding out reality then blaming it on the chick because he was too afraid to find out his fantasy was just that.

He has to ask her on a date. Period. Reality not what if.

 

[ChemGod]

Lol damn. Thanks guys, I needed that. I met her around February but I only recently started talking to her through text- about two weeks ago. Monday was the first time we talked one on one with no one else. And she started inviting me to do things on Tuesday.

Im sure if I wanted I couldve still met up with her, the reason she said that was because I texted her back like an hour later so she mustve been home. She just went with that other guy to work on the hw and drink coffee.

Whatever, I dont care. Im just gonna ask her out and if she says no ill move on. Im above being an orbiter. Thanks for your advice guys, it definitely woke me up and showed me the folly of my ways. Thats why I come here.

 

[9Volt]

Lol damn. Thanks guys, I needed that. I met her around February but I only recently started talking to her through text- about two weeks ago. Monday was the first time we talked one on one with no one else. And she started inviting me to do things on Tuesday.

Im sure if I wanted I couldve still met up with her, the reason she said that was because I texted her back like an hour later so she mustve been home. She just went with that other guy to work on the hw and drink coffee.

Whatever, I dont care. Im just gonna ask her out and if she says no ill move on. Im above being an orbiter. Thanks for your advice guys, it definitely woke me up and showed me the folly of my ways. Thats why I come here.

If she goes out with you. Make it for drinks. Forget homework. Initiate touching etc and see how it goes and escalate.

The friends first keyword FRIENDS doesnt sound good. A dude and a chick may start out as friends and start dating but no chick will verbally tell a dude friends first have him go along with it then decide to be turned on by him.

You're going to have to take the lead. Risk the possible rejection. And escalate if she does go out with you. Right now you're following her lead. Go against her friend nonsense playfully but sexually and go for what you want. Whether she approves or not. If not? Drop it. You aren't here to be her friend and find out beta dude winds up with her or getting some instead.

From your story it doesn't sound good. But fvck it. Go for it regardless.

 

[ChemGod]

If she goes out with you. Make it for drinks. Forget homework. Initiate touching etc and see how it goes and escalate.

The friends first keyword FRIENDS doesnt sound good. A dude and a chick may start out as friends and start dating but no chick will verbally tell a dude friends first have him go along with it then decide to be turned on by him.

You're going to have to take the lead. Risk the possible rejection. And escalate if she does go out with you. Right now you're following her lead. Go against her friend nonsense playfully but sexually and go for what you want. Whether she approves or not. If not? Drop it. You aren't here to be her friend and find out beta dude winds up with her or getting some instead.

From your story it doesn't sound good. But fvck it. Go for it regardless.

Well she said she needs to get to know a guy before she likes them. She didnt really say the exact words friends first. She told me the last time she was on a date was LAST summer. She said that even if she doesnt like a guy at first, she may start to like him as she gets to know them. When i was younger, this girl told me that she didnt like me. I talked to her everyday and she was obsessed with me by the end of the year.

I am transferring universities, and theres an event for admitted students at my new uni next saturday. This girl wants to transfer there too - she even mentioned meeting up with me there next year. I want to ask her to come with me and then go do something else later that day since the event is in the afternoon. I cannot go out for drinks with her since im only 20 and shes 19. Its just that I dont know if thatll be interpreted as a date. Would it be weird if I asked, she said yes, then I asked if its a date? Honestly, if she doesnt seen it as a date I would much rather go alone so I can meet other girls there. Also, what if I ask, she says yes, then says its not a date, would it be weird to uninvite her? lol

 

[9Volt]

Well she said she needs to get to know a guy before she likes them. She didnt really say the exact words friends first. She told me the last time she was on a date was LAST summer. She said that even if she doesnt like a guy at first, she may start to like him as she gets to know them. When i was younger, this girl told me that she didnt like me. I talked to her everyday and she was obsessed with me by the end of the year.

I am transferring universities, and theres an event for admitted students at my new uni next saturday. This girl wants to transfer there too - she even mentioned meeting up with me there next year. I want to ask her to come with me and then go do something else later that day since the event is in the afternoon. I cannot go out for drinks with her since im only 20 and shes 19. Its just that I dont know if thatll be interpreted as a date. Would it be weird if I asked, she said yes, then I asked if its a date? Honestly, if she doesnt seen it as a date I would much rather go alone so I can meet other girls there. Also, what if I ask, she says yes, then says its not a date, would it be weird to uninvite her? lol

To be honest the way it sounds this chick may seem "great" but she sounds like she has issues. I get that people like to get to know people first but this chick seems like she uses the "get to know you" nonsense to string dudes along knowing she's hot and gets attention all the time regardless. She sounds like a flake. As in she herself may be nice, friendly etc. but is personally a flake. She may have some internal issue or gotten burned by some dude she really liked and didn't "wait to get to know him" and now is "friendly punishing" anyone else who tries to get with her by trying to "prove" to her first they are just "perfect" to date. She sounds like the type of chick who would start having you walk on eggshells and try to get back at you if you weren't "in line".

I've known chicks like that. Friendly, touchy feely, always "happy" and smiling, flirting, hot but at the same time not like every other chick. They were almost always single and people wondered why but you and others get a sense something is "off" with them. And the time they do date someone. You start hearing the stories the chick is a nut case.

It may not be definitely the case with this chick but it seems like it and or she's trying to string you along in an "innocent I was just being NICE and told him I wanted to get to know someone first!" way for just in case you eventually blow up at her BS and call her out on it.

Cut to the chase. Tell her you're going out for drinks and she is going to come. If she starts with excuses, no counter offers, doesn't show, or flakes on her own counter offer. Just drop the chick and write her off as a flake. She may even wind up with "boring beta no personality" dude. But that's not your problem.

The only mistake you made was not sh1tting or getting off the pot from jump. Could be because you yourself want things to be "perfect" before you asked her out.

There could be several personal reasons for that. Maybe you don't live in a nice house or something you think about you she won't like, your parents might embarrass you, you don't have money, your car isn't the best, you have a zit or some other "flaw" she might see etc. she may eventually "find out" and "not like you" it could be anything you are subconsciously focusing on as a personal "negative". There's something that's holding you back. Nothing is ever going to be "perfect". If a chick likes YOU she likes YOU regardless and wants to be with you. If not? She can keep it moving. But you need to search for the reasons that are holding you back so it doesn't happen next time.

 

[ChemGod]

To be honest the way it sounds this chick may seem "great" but she sounds like she has issues. I get that people like to get to know people first but this chick seems like she uses the "get to know you" nonsense to string dudes along knowing she's hot and gets attention all the time regardless. She sounds like a flake. As in she herself may be nice, friendly etc. but is personally a flake. She may have some internal issue or gotten burned by some dude she really liked and didn't "wait to get to know him" and now is "friendly punishing" anyone else who tries to get with her by trying to "prove" to her first they are just "perfect" to date. She sounds like the type of chick who would start having you walk on eggshells and try to get back at you if you weren't "in line".

I've known chicks like that. Friendly, touchy feely, always "happy" and smiling, flirting, hot but at the same time not like every other chick. They were almost always single and people wondered why but you and others get a sense something is "off" with them. And the time they do date someone. You start hearing the stories the chick is a nut case.

It may not be definitely the case with this chick but it seems like it and or she's trying to string you along in an "innocent I was just being NICE and told him I wanted to get to know someone first!" way for just in case you eventually blow up at her BS and call her out on it.

Cut to the chase. Tell her you're going out for drinks and she is going to come. If she starts with excuses, no counter offers, doesn't show, or flakes on her own counter offer. Just drop the chick and write her off as a flake. She may even wind up with "boring beta no personality" dude. But that's not your problem.

The only mistake you made was not sh1tting or getting off the pot from jump. Could be because you yourself want things to be "perfect" before you asked her out.

There could be several personal reasons for that. Maybe you don't live in a nice house or something you think about you she won't like, your parents might embarrass you, you don't have money, your car isn't the best, you have a zit or some other "flaw" she might see etc. she may eventually "find out" and "not like you" it could be anything you are subconsciously focusing on as a personal "negative". There's something that's holding you back. Nothing is ever going to be "perfect". If a chick likes YOU she likes YOU regardless and wants to be with you. If not? She can keep it moving. But you need to search for the reasons that are holding you back so it doesn't happen next time.

Well, she didnt exactly say that to me. Like I would tell her my friend likes her, and she would tell me to tell him to talk to her. I asked her if she found him attractive, she said not exactly but if he starts talking to her she might start liking him. Thats what I meant when I said she wants to get to know guys first. Shes actually a really nice girl, shes not like the girls you described. I would say this even if she said no to me. When i first met her, I asked her to go to lunch with us. She said no, but it was understandable because it was 3 of us dudes and only her and we just met. Then a few weeks after that, she came up to me and asked me where I went to lunch. Then her and her new friend joined our group and now we go to lunch every friday.

With this girl, the main reason I feel she may not like me is because she is taller than me, but you are right, I pvssy out with girls I actually like and IDK why. I am smart - I just got accepted to UCLA as a junior as a bio major. I am attractive - girls hit on me all the time, just the other day, this girl told me I was handsome and even told me I was an alpha lol. I have a 2013 honda civic, not bad for a 20 year old. I have a house but I cant bring girls over anyway. Im seriously ripped, I was one of those skinny guys that worked out and got really buff since I didnt have any fat to begin with. I have really nice skin - girls complement me on my skin color all the time. Ive been using retinoids for like 7 months now so I have no acne. I work as a tutor at my current college, so I do have money.

But idk, something inside me tells me the girl that I actually like wont like me back. With this chick tho, its mostly the height difference. She is like two inches taller than me.

I did hang out wit her today though. I picked her up and pretended she was too heavy. Then I gave her a hug cause I felt mean lol. But idk, I hate thinking about girls, I always think they wont like me.
When I was younger I never got a lot of girls, I did ok but I Couldnt go up to chicks and have them like me. I had to talk to them a lot and they would start liking my personality.

Now I can get girls with just looks, but something inside me tells me that the girls that I like wont like me back. Idk what it is and it is really lame as it prevents me from putting myself out there. I guess Im just trying to protect myself from getting hurt.

 

[9Volt]

Well, she didnt exactly say that to me. Like I would tell her my friend likes her, and she would tell me to tell him to talk to her. I asked her if she found him attractive, she said not exactly but if he starts talking to her she might start liking him. Thats what I meant when I said she wants to get to know guys first. Shes actually a really nice girl, shes not like the girls you described. I would say this even if she said no to me. When i first met her, I asked her to go to lunch with us. She said no, but it was understandable because it was 3 of us dudes and only her and we just met. Then a few weeks after that, she came up to me and asked me where I went to lunch. Then her and her new friend joined our group and now we go to lunch every friday.

With this girl, the main reason I feel she may not like me is because she is taller than me, but you are right, I pvssy out with girls I actually like and IDK why. I am smart - I just got accepted to UCLA as a junior as a bio major. I am attractive - girls hit on me all the time, just the other day, this girl told me I was handsome and even told me I was an alpha lol. I have a 2013 honda civic, not bad for a 20 year old. I have a house but I cant bring girls over anyway. Im seriously ripped, I was one of those skinny guys that worked out and got really buff since I didnt have any fat to begin with. I have really nice skin - girls complement me on my skin color all the time. Ive been using retinoids for like 7 months now so I have no acne. I work as a tutor at my current college, so I do have money.

But idk, something inside me tells me the girl that I actually like wont like me back. With this chick tho, its mostly the height difference. She is like two inches taller than me.

I did hang out wit her today though. I picked her up and pretended she was too heavy. Then I gave her a hug cause I felt mean lol. But idk, I hate thinking about girls, I always think they wont like me.
When I was younger I never got a lot of girls, I did ok but I Couldnt go up to chicks and have them like me. I had to talk to them a lot and they would start liking my personality.

Now I can get girls with just looks, but something inside me tells me that the girls that I like wont like me back. Idk what it is and it is really lame as it prevents me from putting myself out there. I guess Im just trying to protect myself from getting hurt.

She may be cool and not like that but eventually her :getting to know a guy" will go right out the window for some dude she fantasizes about.

Just go after her. No more talking.

 

[ChemGod]

She may be cool and not like that but eventually her :getting to know a guy" will go right out the window for some dude she fantasizes about.

Just go after her. No more talking.

Your right.

She would be lucky to have me.

Thanks.