Is this girl bi-sexual?

[DJinTraining06]

I've gone out with this girl a few times already and i can tell shes realy into me and we have a 4th date planned. I really like this chick so far, but one thing got me thinking.

She asked me 2 days in a row if "i would ever date a bi-sexual girl". Now granted we have had weird convos about everything so its not unusual for us and we were actually on the subject of gays at the moment anyway so it didnt seem odd to me at all the first time she asked. The next night tho we saw each other again and she asked the same exact question. Now i dunno if she just forgot that she had asked me already or if she is bi-sexual and therefore really wants to know what i think about it.

I told her this "no i prob wouln't date a bi-sexual chick, cuz i want her to be interested in me and only me" then i just made some little joke about how it would be cool cuz then i could check out chicks and not get yelled at cuz she would be too.

I think she might be bi-sexual now tho. She has very strong arms, she lifts 8 lbs at the gym and her biceps r rock solid. She doesnt look musuclar tho so thats whats cool, shes got a nice body. but i dunno most girls ive met dont use weights, just machines just to get toned. this girl is like rock solid. She dresses feminine, very plain but not masculine in my opinion. She lives alone, she has nothing on the walls of her apartment at all.
Which is not a typical chick thing to do. Other than that tho shes pretty girly. She took ballet all her life. Likes chick flicks, girly songs. I know im being really sterotypical here but hey steryotypes r useful sometimes,lol.

What do u guys think is she bi?

 

[MightyMate]

All girls are.

 

[DJinTraining06]

All girls are.

Thats a myth. i've had girls flat out say they don't get where that comes from cuz the thought of having relations with another chick is disgusting to them.

 

[S1NN3R]

What the hell does the size of her arms or her style of dress have to do with you thinking she might be bi? Only one thing makes a girl bi, and it's not if she works out or what her clothing tastes are, it if she fcuks other chicks. You're talking about myths, well that's one big one that you're buying into thinking that bi girls have to be butch or buff or something.

And your comment about wanting her to be into you and only you doesn't make any sense in this context. Just because a girl is bi doesn't mean she's going to be cheating on you every chance you get. Straight girls are attracted to men, but if she's into you, then she's into you. The fact that a girl is bi doensn't mean anything different, if she's into you then she's into you. Being bi would just mean that there are twice as many people that she's not dating because she likes you.

Jeez, some people thinking that just because a girl is bi that she's going to be some unfaithful slvt.... Why?

As for this girl being bi or not, she might just be trying to broach the subject so she can tell you in a more comfortable and off-hand manner that she is, and that might be why she has brought it up more than once. She might be hoping you'll respond with "Yeah, I probably would, why? Are you bi?" Either that or it's a sh!t test to see if you're ever going to want her to bang another chick in the future.

Either way, if you want to know for a fact if she's bi, there's only one person to ask, and she's probably not reading this thread.

 

[DJinTraining06]

Well the thing is i think alot of people who claim they are bi-sexual are lying and they r strictly gay. Don't get me wrong i know there def are bisexuals out there. But i've known 2 guys who cliamed to be bi, but they convenientyl had more same sex relationships that straight. The straight ones never seemed to last and they never seemed too excited bout them. Also I think bisexuality soemtimes is not always 50/50. Ive heard that alot of times it leans more to one side. Now i know there is no way to measure this is no way to measure it but how do u know? if shes a lesbian and shes fakin it to avoid the embarassment of coming out and stuff, then i woudlnt wanna be part fo that. I agree with most of what u said though.

What the hell does the size of her arms or her style of dress have to do with you thinking she might be bi? Only one thing makes a girl bi, and it's not if she works out or what her clothing tastes are, it if she fcuks other chicks. You're talking about myths, well that's one big one that you're buying into thinking that bi girls have to be butch or buff or something.

And your comment about wanting her to be into you and only you doesn't make any sense in this context. Just because a girl is bi doesn't mean she's going to be cheating on you every chance you get. Straight girls are attracted to men, but if she's into you, then she's into you. The fact that a girl is bi doensn't mean anything different, if she's into you then she's into you. Being bi would just mean that there are twice as many people that she's not dating because she likes you.

Jeez, some people thinking that just because a girl is bi that she's going to be some unfaithful slvt.... Why?

As for this girl being bi or not, she might just be trying to broach the subject so she can tell you in a more comfortable and off-hand manner that she is, and that might be why she has brought it up more than once. She might be hoping you'll respond with "Yeah, I probably would, why? Are you bi?" Either that or it's a sh!t test to see if you're ever going to want her to bang another chick in the future.

Either way, if you want to know for a fact if she's bi, there's only one person to ask, and she's probably not reading this thread.

 

[DJinTraining06]

Either way, if you want to know for a fact if she's bi, there's only one person to ask, and she's probably not reading this thread.

I'm afraid to ask her now. I wish i had asked her at the time cuz it woulda been perfectly normal to ask. Now its like gonna be insultign ro something. Like if she is indeed straight and now shes gonan think shes butch or something cuz i said that. I dunno maybe im making too much out of it. i got hung up on this girl too fast. Its only been 2 weeks.

 

[DJinTraining06]

I asked her, she's 100% straight. She laughed and said she "likes penis"
she took it pretty well, found it amusing that i thought that.