Ok before I talk about this chick, I want to make it clear I have been spinning other plates while seeing her, so she is far from the only one. I look at her as a seed on the side, and am just looking to see if something will eventually grow out of it out of curiosity.
So as silly as this may sound it is the truth, I have been going out with her now for 2 months and we haven't even kissed yet. I've been to a few rodeos and know when they want it, and her actions have shown she is far from ready for affection, and the other night my suspicions were confirmed.
Went for the kiss close thinking f it enough is enough mine as well try, and she was nervous too death and rejected. She texted me 5 min later apologizing, and saying she just needs more time.
I just said ok. She always consistently sees me, is always either on time or early, and has no problem paying for dates either.
She has confided in me she is very insecure, doesn't want to get hurt again, is afraid to open up bla bla bla. And she is from another country and insecure about the cultural and language barriers.
On one hand I think I should had moved on a long time ago, but on the other, for the record I am looking to eventually be in a relationship, and think maybe if I can just put the time in with her and earn her trust maybe I can have me a good woman, cause at least I know she ain't messing with other dudes lol. But this is just weird cause at a maximum I'm used to full on hooking up by the 3rd date, but 2 months, christ lol!
Idk this is just so weird to me, she also claims to have been single and celibate for the last 6 years at 27 years old, and as crazy as it sounds I believe her.
So should I just keep seeing her and let her eventually open up (if she does), and shrug off this kiss reject, or get more aggressive and just cut losses if this persists? Aside from her issues I like her personality and she is my type phsyically, if I didn't see something in her I would not have stood for this this long.
Anyways don't get it twisted fellas, this is just someting I have on the side here, I have other plates too, I would never vest my all in a girl like this, just looking for some feedback on this.
So as silly as this may sound it is the truth, I have been going out with her now for 2 months and we haven't even kissed yet. I've been to a few rodeos and know when they want it, and her actions have shown she is far from ready for affection, and the other night my suspicions were confirmed.
Went for the kiss close thinking f it enough is enough mine as well try, and she was nervous too death and rejected. She texted me 5 min later apologizing, and saying she just needs more time.
I just said ok. She always consistently sees me, is always either on time or early, and has no problem paying for dates either.
She has confided in me she is very insecure, doesn't want to get hurt again, is afraid to open up bla bla bla. And she is from another country and insecure about the cultural and language barriers.
On one hand I think I should had moved on a long time ago, but on the other, for the record I am looking to eventually be in a relationship, and think maybe if I can just put the time in with her and earn her trust maybe I can have me a good woman, cause at least I know she ain't messing with other dudes lol. But this is just weird cause at a maximum I'm used to full on hooking up by the 3rd date, but 2 months, christ lol!
Idk this is just so weird to me, she also claims to have been single and celibate for the last 6 years at 27 years old, and as crazy as it sounds I believe her.
So should I just keep seeing her and let her eventually open up (if she does), and shrug off this kiss reject, or get more aggressive and just cut losses if this persists? Aside from her issues I like her personality and she is my type phsyically, if I didn't see something in her I would not have stood for this this long.
Anyways don't get it twisted fellas, this is just someting I have on the side here, I have other plates too, I would never vest my all in a girl like this, just looking for some feedback on this.
