Im not going to get into a lot of details about this girl but i want to figure something out. Ive known her for about 4-5 months There is defiantley sexual tension everytime we see each other. I guess you can say she some what of an attention wh0re just by her actions but still ive dealt with a couple others before and shes not too bad at all comparatively speaking.
Stupid pointless sh!t went down a couple of months ago. Nothing out of control or anything just stupid sh!t. so we stopped talking for almost 1.5 months. then she invited me to her grad party out of the blue. i went, we talked for a little bit but mostly doing our own thing. At the end of the night i was taking off. she gave me a hug and said call me in a really fast tone like the way you say something you think about saying beofre hand. I called her the following weekened. She answered we talked all normal. she said when you get down her let me know where you are at.
I get to the bars and text her
Convo:
Me: hey im at blah blah
Her: Im at blah blah then going to blah blah
Me: Well you can come over here.
Her: Im leaving to blah blah
Me: Well if you wanna hang out lemme know
Her: K call you later (in other words not calling)
So its been like 3 weeks since then. I saw her out one time but did not go up to here cause i felt no need. Today (sunday) i was driving and bored and decided to text her out of the blue.
Convo:
Me: Hey you dooin?
Her: Good how are you?
Me: Freakin awesome. just driving
(No immediate reply from her, waited about 2 mintues)
Me: Just wanted to say whats up. give me a call sometime. Later dude
Her: We should hang out this weekened
Me: K call me or ill call you
Her: Ok
Im just curious if i call her up this weekened if she will pull the same sh!t as last time. Is she just seeing if she could still get me? or is she just being geniune? I guess if she says we should hang out she probably means it cause i wouldnt say that to a girl i didnt want to see nor would i even reply to a text message but on the other hand im not an attention wh0re. Should i just say fvck it and not even attempt to chill with her this weekened and sit back and see if she asks me this time. i think shes just stubborn sometimes about contacting someone or whatever. i want to run a test on her and see where she stands. any suggestions? Im not acting like a push over with this girl?
Stupid pointless sh!t went down a couple of months ago. Nothing out of control or anything just stupid sh!t. so we stopped talking for almost 1.5 months. then she invited me to her grad party out of the blue. i went, we talked for a little bit but mostly doing our own thing. At the end of the night i was taking off. she gave me a hug and said call me in a really fast tone like the way you say something you think about saying beofre hand. I called her the following weekened. She answered we talked all normal. she said when you get down her let me know where you are at.
I get to the bars and text her
Convo:
Me: hey im at blah blah
Her: Im at blah blah then going to blah blah
Me: Well you can come over here.
Her: Im leaving to blah blah
Me: Well if you wanna hang out lemme know
Her: K call you later (in other words not calling)
So its been like 3 weeks since then. I saw her out one time but did not go up to here cause i felt no need. Today (sunday) i was driving and bored and decided to text her out of the blue.
Convo:
Me: Hey you dooin?
Her: Good how are you?
Me: Freakin awesome. just driving
(No immediate reply from her, waited about 2 mintues)
Me: Just wanted to say whats up. give me a call sometime. Later dude
Her: We should hang out this weekened
Me: K call me or ill call you
Her: Ok
Im just curious if i call her up this weekened if she will pull the same sh!t as last time. Is she just seeing if she could still get me? or is she just being geniune? I guess if she says we should hang out she probably means it cause i wouldnt say that to a girl i didnt want to see nor would i even reply to a text message but on the other hand im not an attention wh0re. Should i just say fvck it and not even attempt to chill with her this weekened and sit back and see if she asks me this time. i think shes just stubborn sometimes about contacting someone or whatever. i want to run a test on her and see where she stands. any suggestions? Im not acting like a push over with this girl?