"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is this girl a trap

Dhoulmagus

Dhoulmagus

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She messaged me first on tinder and asked me to drink with her Saturday night at some bar.

red flags
says she is 25 on tinder, but graduated hs in 2004 or 2005 on Facebook
She told me to add her on Facebook, but she has it set to where I can't add her
She's too hot lmao according to her pics
She seems to already know my interests
She has the same name as my ex and lives near the neighborhood she lives at
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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grayclif

grayclif

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Guys are supposed to ask girls out on dates.
 
Poon King

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Ask her to video chat then. Find out.

Remember that YOU should be calling the shots and the relationship should be on YOUR terms not hers. IF she does not submit to your requests then she is a waste of time.

Men.. ONLY deal with women who submit to you and there will me a lot less drama and confusion in your dating life.
 
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