"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was hanging out with some friends the morning after we went partying, we were just shooting the sh!t and feeding our friend's dog, when one of the girls put a dogbone halfway in her mouth and had the dog come and get it from her. It was kind of cute. The other girl (who I have known for a long time but we're not toooo close) said, "Eww, that's gross!" and I replied, "Oh come on, it's not like you haven't put worse things in your mouth before."

I thought it was funny, but it was like dead silence. I'm guessing she was at least slightly offended...did that cross the line? The audience was 2 girls and one guy (who is a major AFC).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if the girl is immature enough to put a dogbone in her mouth then that joke shouldnt be offensive to them
 
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I thought that was funny

lol
 
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it could be funny, but it's how you say things not what you say. Your question is very situational
 
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Funny to me cause you made a bit of a fool of yourself. But stop worrying if you crossed the line. DJ's don't worry. Have you read the DJ bible good sir?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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