I met this girl at a bar on Saturday. We talked, got her number and kissed. I texted her that night to give her my number. She was receptive. We texted the next day. She brought up how she was off all week from work. I said we should hang out then. It later at night, I saw she had read my message but she didn't answer. So the next morning I say "I am going to take that as a no then lol" She responds and tells me that it all depends if the dad picks up her son. I go on with the conversation and stop talking about it. Then we talked about how we didn't see each other for long at the bar. So I said well if you get free wednesday we will go out. Again, she reads my message and takes forever to answer. This time I dont say anything. She finally responds with maybe we can lol. I change the topic again.
The day we might hangout comes around. I say that before I get on with my day, do you know if you can hang yet. She tells me that the dad hasnt bailed yet. So she asks me if I still wanted to hang out. I told her yeah thats why I am asking lol. We change the conversation again. Later in the day she asks me if we are still getting together. I say sure and ask for a time. She tells me the time frame she has. We pick a time and she asks what we will do. So we decided to go play pool.
We meet up a few hours later. Have some beers. Have fun. We leave she tells me to give her a hug, we hug and she tells me she will text me later. We start texting again that night. The next day we are still texting and she says to me "Ugh I am bored right now like hmmm, what time are you done school" I just tell her that I am on my way home and I would be home by 4. I then offer that if she wanted I could come over and make her unbored. She didn't answer back. I found new plans so I text again saying nvm you were too slow. She apologizes to me and says that she fell asleep and ask what I ended up doing. Her show she watches was on that night. So I ask what time. She tells me. She says she usually just records it and watches it at other times. So I tell her that I was going to say I could have came over later to watch it and see if it was good. Again I get no response. When I become free i let her know. She tells me that she was still out with her son at that time. So we keep convo going. Again late in the night she says shes bored again. I tell her that sucks and she could have hung out with me but missed out. She answers back a while later with just "night" so ask if she's going to bed and good night.
Now it is today. This girl has been very receptive. She asks me lots of questions, every day asks how work or my day was. Asked my age. Tells me to drive safe even. She doesnt seem like she texts a lot usually. Would you guys consider this flakey behaviour on her part? Should I keep trying or just drop it?
The day we might hangout comes around. I say that before I get on with my day, do you know if you can hang yet. She tells me that the dad hasnt bailed yet. So she asks me if I still wanted to hang out. I told her yeah thats why I am asking lol. We change the conversation again. Later in the day she asks me if we are still getting together. I say sure and ask for a time. She tells me the time frame she has. We pick a time and she asks what we will do. So we decided to go play pool.
We meet up a few hours later. Have some beers. Have fun. We leave she tells me to give her a hug, we hug and she tells me she will text me later. We start texting again that night. The next day we are still texting and she says to me "Ugh I am bored right now like hmmm, what time are you done school" I just tell her that I am on my way home and I would be home by 4. I then offer that if she wanted I could come over and make her unbored. She didn't answer back. I found new plans so I text again saying nvm you were too slow. She apologizes to me and says that she fell asleep and ask what I ended up doing. Her show she watches was on that night. So I ask what time. She tells me. She says she usually just records it and watches it at other times. So I tell her that I was going to say I could have came over later to watch it and see if it was good. Again I get no response. When I become free i let her know. She tells me that she was still out with her son at that time. So we keep convo going. Again late in the night she says shes bored again. I tell her that sucks and she could have hung out with me but missed out. She answers back a while later with just "night" so ask if she's going to bed and good night.
Now it is today. This girl has been very receptive. She asks me lots of questions, every day asks how work or my day was. Asked my age. Tells me to drive safe even. She doesnt seem like she texts a lot usually. Would you guys consider this flakey behaviour on her part? Should I keep trying or just drop it?
