"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is this FB playing games?

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The drama never stops!

I've been working on two girls from my past....the reason why I'm doign this is becasue I dont have any options at the moment and a crazy sceduale so i really dont have tiem for sarging/cCAing or doign the the "get to know you crap with dates, and trying to lead them to sex.

Anyway, I'm was workng on one girl I posted about and because we had been BF & GF I took everyoens advice and got the idea out of my head and haven't spoken to her since...

Now this other girl, we slept togeather abotu a year ago...then we selpt together 2 weeks ago. (first tiem we had seen each other since the first tiem we had sex...anyway....it's been just me tryign to organize another date/session and I've tryed 3 times in 2 weeks...she keeps saying "No, I'm busy blah blah" I said to her "well I'm not going to ask you again..." She was like "dongt give me that ****, I'm really busy blah bla..." I couldnt help myself and said, " look I'll be straight up with you because I dotn want to waste anymroe of my time...I will have you as a FB but i'm not after a relationship." ....etc etc etc.....Then her reply was that this woudl be ok "every now and then...but she isn't going to run over when ever i need a root" Afer a whil Ie ended saying "ok, hows tomrrow night then?" and she said "no I'm busy I told you" and i said" at least give me a day to work with..." and she said "next week...." then she said good bye and loggen off msn pretty quick.

Now is she tryign to play games or is she flat out not interested enough?

I can't mess aroudn with a girl that isn't even a bit interested...that sux. lol
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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if shes an F buddy you cant treat her like ****. If shes busy accept it and ask her what days she is not busy. You told her striaght forwar and kinda rude that u only wanted to **** not ltr. I woulda expected her to get pissed and hang up. she actually agreed, so idont think she is playing games.



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Id say your just not good in bed. So shes not really intrested.

Ninja out
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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I'm only person that has made her come during sex...and this has happened bothh times we've slept together...

I have no need to lie what so ever.....and i can tell you she didn't shut up about how good "it" was.

Doesn't effect me if you don't believe me,.

All us aussies are good in bed son.
 
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Hey not that i dont belive you but theres a reason why shes not intrested and that seemed the most logical untill you explained it.

Aussies are good in bed so are Italians lol im and Italian in Australia so im FANTASTIC in bed. :D

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"That was disturbingly good." - Hot-arse blonde minutes after getting plowed by yours truly.

This was the first night after we met (where we couldn't sleep together because her parents were home). I told her, 'listen, we can either call this a ONS, or we can keep seeing each other and see what happens.'

She says 'I don't want to be a ONS'... while she's still panting, in her puddle of sweat and the wet spot.

Saw her once since, by coincidence seeing her at the bar, she always flakes.

It took about 3 attempts, then I stopped calling her and nexted her like I should have done while she was still panting.
 
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