Is this evolution?

[abe0]

After a 25 year marriage I was so AFC it was pathetic....Through the help of male friends and this site....I became a man again. That said, I have noticed that I am a lot more indifferent when rejected or during a break up. I just do not give a sh*t....maybe it is because it has happened so frequently and it is a defense mechanism. I am more willing to walk away from bs knowing that there is another plate around the corner.
It does disturb me that one day maybe that right person might come along and that I will be to quick to judge...or not willing to make the effort to work on that relationship.
Has anyone else gone through this process? Thanks, Abe

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Abe,
"Is this evolution?", More like adaptation....Does not the snake charmer start his apprenticeship by regularly injecting small but ever increasing doses of venom?...He creates immunity by exposure and so do you!

 

[Alvafe]

adaptation is part of evolution, you adapt to evolve, but like pair said chances for you find the right one is pretty slim and if it does she will do all work to make it right