"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is this disrespect?

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A girl invites you on a date.

She wants to take you to dinner (cool.) and drive you there (even better.).

Then asks all her friends on if they want to do something that night and meetup without asking you (its in an area thats not exactly close to home.) - I don't care about meeting up with her friends, but is this disrespect?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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hell yes.

any girl I've dated, who was into me, would never pull that during the
"getting to know you" stage.
 
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what do? also this is a girl that we've been on a few dates already - i just for some reason still think its disrespectful
 
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first date yes, 3+ ?? she wants you and her friends to meet, how can that be disrespectful?
 
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first date yes, 3+ ?? she wants you and her friends to meet, how can that be disrespectful?
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Precisely! She wants you to meet her friends, what's wrong with that?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oh. you didn't mention you'd already been out a few times.

not disrespectful, she wants to show you off to her friends.

thats a good thing.
 
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It is always a positive sign when a girl shows you off to her friends -- she is boasting.
 
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TRSX said:
what do? also this is a girl that we've been on a few dates already - i just for some reason still think its disrespectful
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That changes everything, she wants to show you off. That's a good thing.
 
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