"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Following is a fb message thread between me and a HB. I am interested in her and wanted to show my interest. Does this appear desperate??

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hey...... how are you officer ??? hope everything is good at your end...

Chera
Hey babe.. Yeah, I am pretty good.. I am in XXX now.. I injured my shoulder during training and out of action for a while.. So thought will make a trip to XXX..

Hw r things with u? any good news? how is ur superstrong mum? U said that she might make a trip here this may.. Is she coming? If she comes, let me know.. would like to c her. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I replied to her message after 3 days because I was genuinely busy. But after my reply she hasn't replied..
 
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The fact that you waited 3 days to send a simple reply probably put her off. (I know that would piss me off if someone did that to me. It reeks of discourtesy and disinterest.) As far as the text is concerned, there's a bit much going on in that single text. A LOT of questions....
 
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Chera said:
Hw r things with u? any good news? how is ur superstrong mum? U said that she might make a trip here this may.. Is she coming? If she comes, let me know.. would like to c her. :)
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And this is the way a "mature man" communicates? Wow.

Desperate? Nah, I wouldn't say that. I am kind of curious why you are so interested in seeing her mom, though.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She had to wait 3 days for THAT? Probably thinks "ur" a d!ck. Should've let her know "u" were busy at least.
 
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