“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is this crazy

cognac

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Been chatting with a girl I know. She was texting me like crazy in the middle of the week to come out and hang with her at this camp site she rented with a cabin. I went over there and her kids are there. I kinda expected that cuz she did say one of them was there. she has three boys and I've never met them.

So the night progresses and then we go inside for a bit and then eventually go into the bedroom of the camper cabin and her eldest some ,who's a teen sleeps on the couch near the bedroom cuz there is only a few places to sleep in it. Well we start heading to the bedroom and her son is like I don't want to hear the bed squeaking and then the girl start jumping on the bed and says it doesn't squeak. i was like wtf. Well i go in and I am just kinda weirded out. There is no door to the bedroom and her son is just a few feet away. So I didn't do anything but talk to her all night.

I still can't believe it happened. I mean I'm no saint but damn how the hell does one do that sorta thing with there kids around, especially with a guy they've never met?
Is this some crazed out stuff? What the hell is wrong with some women?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

vitor

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The real questions is what is wrong with you. Not being rude but what did you think was going to happen with her 3 kids there ? I would have not gone at all hanging out with her three kids and her is not something you should be doing for a long time unless you are getting serious with her...
 

cognac

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I know what you're saying. It was a bad move. I should have never acted on that. Even though I'm in the wrong too, it still blows my mind that a woman could do such a thing as if it was normal.
 

cognac

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Do ya think I messed up by just talking to her and not making a move?
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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Ahh...another one of those awkward situations where you're sitting there, with or without a hard on, thinking "what the hell is this?"
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

jophil28

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I want to know what you were thinking when you were driving up to the cabin.
Did you give one solitary thought to what is likely to happen between the two of you at bed time with her kids present ?

I think you walked into that situation with your eyes and your mind closed.
 

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think things All The Way through next time.
 

Sir Juanalot

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The worst thing is that it seems perfectly normal to the kids for some guy to come up to the cabin and bang their mom.

Leave well alone imo.
 
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