Is This Chick Relationship Worthy?

[mrgoodstuff]

Too late, she went from constant sex.. to zero sex, not even allowed to talk about it anymore.. so i fuked it off lol


Whats the point of a plate, if the sex vibe has been killed off.

You did right

 

[soulforge]

So last night I got a text off this chick, asking me how I am..

Me - yeh fine thanks, hows you


So she proceeds to tell me, that she is having her eye operation in 3 weeks time


Me - Ok hope it goes well

Her - That is nice of you.. When I was seeing you, you didn't care much about me

Me - Ok


So i haven't bothered to text anything further..

It's not that I did not care much about this chick.. it was more about the fact she was too easy, and I felt she was too risky to develop a relationship with..

Plus she is back on POF 3 days after I Nexted her..


My guess is she trying to make me feel guilty.. so she can feel better about herself for being back on POF looking for new dicck? Lol

Keep ignoring her?

Or clearly let her know, that she needs to take some responsibility, and realise that she ruled herself out of a relationship with me? She only herself to blame?


All that being said.. I wouldn't mind banging this chick again at some point.. purely sexual thing..

I am thinking by calling her out, the chnaces of that happening could possibly decrease???

 

[stovepipe]

You seem to 2nd guess yourself a lot. You have handled everything well from this broad to the gold digger. Keep ignoring this sloot. She knows the sex is the only thing you're thinking about. Whenever she makes contact, the visions of the sex runs through your mind and you want nothing more than to smash again.

You should have never responded to her text. It only opens the mind to unnecessary thinking and what if's. Should have blocked her # like we told you.

Yes, shes trying to make you feel guilty=red flag.

Back on POF=make you jealous

Keep ignoring her=you already said you would, stick to your word!

You already know the answers to all your own questions.

The sex is whats keeping the soul tie with her and your mind constantly wanting it again. These types of women have a super human sense of knowing their targets are thinking about them or when a date with another women fails. You are at your most vulnerable, its crazy!

 

[soulforge]

You seem to 2nd guess yourself a lot. You have handled everything well from this broad to the gold digger. Keep ignoring this sloot. She knows the sex is the only thing you're thinking about. Whenever she makes contact, the visions of the sex runs through your mind and you want nothing more than to smash again.

You should have never responded to her text. It only opens the mind to unnecessary thinking and what if's. Should have blocked her # like we told you.

Yes, shes trying to make you feel guilty=red flag.

Back on POF=make you jealous

Keep ignoring her=you already said you would, stick to your word!

You already know the answers to all your own questions.

The sex is whats keeping the soul tie with her and your mind constantly wanting it again. These types of women have a super human sense of knowing their targets are thinking about them or when a date with another women fails. You are at your most vulnerable, its crazy!

The girl is RIGHT tho.. I didn't care for her that much.. but it's not because I am some evil guy.. it was simply to remain emotionally distant from her..

She was quite nice tho, to be fair to her.. her IL was very high in me.. and she went out of her way for me on occasions..

But she felt too risky for an RS.. plus she made things worse by holding back sex, and using a threat against me..

That pushed me out even further..

Stovepipe you are spot on man.. Its that crazy addictive sex with her, that I really miss.. was freaky to the max..

Just going to have to think about her taking a big huge dump, every time the sex comes back into my mind lol

 

[sazc]

@stovepipe, my take is that @soulforge is learning. If you go back to the start, to when he first posted, and read till now, he's getting a handle on things.

I think a lot of men post here to seek validation that they have made the best choice, and/or to learn what other options/choices they might have, but didnt see.

For most men this board is a learning process and for a subset of those men, they do learn.

 

[sazc]

@soulforge no need to text her unless you want a friend. She may sex you up again but you have to decide if that is where you want to go and, from her text, if things returned to that level, she would want some sort of relationship from you.

JMO

 

[soulforge]

@soulforge no need to text her unless you want a friend. She may sex you up again but you have to decide if that is where you want to go and, from her text, if things returned to that level, she would want some sort of relationship from you.

JMO

Well sazc her motive is to get a RS... I kinda feel bad, because I could have treated her better..

But it was risky to get too deeply involved with this chick..

If I see her again as a fuk buddy, chances are she will back off again, go cold if she doesn't feel like I am giving her enough..

Seems like a wasted effort

 

[soulforge]

So this crazy bich text me other night, just simple chit chat.. she asks me if I am seeing anyone blah blah blah...

She mentions that it's a shame that I didn't want to commit to her.. and I only want sex with her!

So I tell her, hey why don't you come over at the weekend, and we can have a drink and chat, discuss things over.. maybe we can be more than just FWB

Obviously I want to bang this sloot.. not in a million years would I commit to anything with her..

So then she backs away, with some bullchit excuse about having plans this weekend.. WTF


Anyhow I intend to to just ignore the chit out of this hoe if she messages me again.. waste of time and effort

 

[soulforge]

What is the best method of getting rid of her for good?

01.Ignore, block, delete, NC

02.Bring her back down to earth, and let her know what a low quality sloot she is, and how she is not worthy of commitment

Right now, she has this opinion that i'm the bad guy, and she is all innocent and angelic..

Maybe I should give her a dose of reality, then fuk her off for good.. I was banging this chick only 3 months, so maybe she needs a wake up call

 

[Jifto]

I'd go with option 01 man. Believe it or not, I think 01 gives her more of a reality call than anything else.

The things she'll tell herself will be way worse than anything you can say. Silence can be devastating to an insecure person like this. They'll think through all the things they did, not just what you said. Plus, they can be defensive to your comments, they can't be defensive to their own.

Easier said than done though, sure does feel good to put a person like that in their place. I did it recently. Calmly, but cutting. If you do decide to say anything, my advice would be no swearing, no yelling, no name calling. Pick one thing and hit it tactfully....but better yet. Let her head do the talking.

 

[soulforge]

I'd go with option 01 man. Believe it or not, I think 01 gives her more of a reality call than anything else.

The things she'll tell herself will be way worse than anything you can say. Silence can be devastating to an insecure person like this. They'll think through all the things they did, not just what you said. Plus, they can be defensive to your comments, they can't be defensive to their own.

Easier said than done though, sure does feel good to put a person like that in their place. I did it recently. Calmly, but cutting. If you do decide to say anything, my advice would be no swearing, no yelling, no name calling. Pick one thing and hit it tactfully....but better yet. Let her head do the talking.

This man.. she is painting this picture that I am the kind of guy who is only interested in sex, and she deserves commitment..

Totally ignoring the fact, she came straight to my house from pof, and dropped her nickers withing 30mins..

Told me she has been looking for a dom, to abuse her for a long time..

Showed interest in multiple guys fuking and abusing her at the same time..

Asked me several times to invite a friend over to fuk her aswell..

So why not just put her straight a little then fuk her off..

I mean it's not even like I am getting sex off this hoe at the moment, she killed the sex vibe off and is flaky!

Maybe put her straight then, NEXT

 

[soulforge]

Either way this chick is done with..


Normally in a relationship type situation I would just go NC or ghost.. End of story

With this particular situation, because she is playing the victim card.. I really feel tempted to tell her why I would never consider her, relationship material.. And let her know exactly why..

maybe she could learn from this, and stop being such a slut in the future!

 

[soulforge]

Finally got rid of this hoe.. she was playing games, hot/cold.. witholding sex.. manipulation


Told her straight up, I don't believe she is worthy of commitment from me.. and i'm done with her..


Hopefully she has got the message..

This plate here proves, how manipulative a womans nature is.. she will hook you in with great sex.. then all the mind games will start..

Get rid of hoes like this, once you have pumped them a few times!