"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this chick for real?

Rebound Material

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Ok, so today at work this chick came in and hell, I found her fairly attractive. She sat at the hostess station and from across the restaurant we caught eye contact. I thought it was only going to be brief but she kept eyeing me. To test it out, I went up to our hostess at the hostess station and tried to make small talk. Sure enough the chick was eyeing me. As I was walking to my car after work, I noticed that she was sitting in her car having a smoke still eyeing me. I then noticed that a friend of mine was parked right next to me talking on the phone in his car so I went up to him just to say whats up. Turns out she knew him too and went up to him also trying to get his attention from outside the car. I figured she was a smoker and so was I so I pretended to to not have a lighter and asked my friend for one. Thats when she immedietly offered a light and asked me to follow her to her car. On the way to her car she introduced herself and I did likewise. This chick didnt even waste her time cuz she started asking all kinds of stuff about me:

"Where you from?"
"What do you like to do for fun?"
"Do you party alot?"
"Where'd you attend high school?"
"How long have you been working there?"

etc...yea, she did most of the asking/talking, but I would also revert the question to her.

Anyways, our friend joined us later in the conversation and she told him "hey stop ****blocking me". I decided to grab a jacket from my car and when I came back, she already had her cell out and ready and asked for my number(I got hers too btw). She told me that she was gonna invite me to her kickback at her house when her parents were gone. Shortly after that, I told them that I had to go because me and a few friends were going to a bar that night. She said she wanted to tag along but she had to go home or some sh!t.

Anyways, I was a bit suspicious because that whole thing was almost too easy. She initiated the interaction, she initiated the conversation, She also told me "finally, I meet someone at my level" because she asked me my age and I was only a year or less younger than her(im 21 and shes 22). She asked for my digits, she already invited me over to her invite only thing at her place.

As I was driving away tonight I was thinking that she was:

a) Lonely
b) Just got out of an LTR and was looking for a rebound(takes a bow).
c) Easy
d) Crazy
e) Attention-ho/C0ck tease
e) ...or was really attracted to me?

I need your opinions guys.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sounds like you are the chick and she is the wannabe DJ.
She's probably writing a FR right now how she number close you.
 

Lust

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Rebound Material said:
Ok, so today at work this chick came in and hell, I found her fairly attractive. She sat at the hostess station and from across the restaurant we caught eye contact. I thought it was only going to be brief but she kept eyeing me. To test it out, I went up to our hostess at the hostess station and tried to make small talk. Sure enough the chick was eyeing me. As I was walking to my car after work, I noticed that she was sitting in her car having a smoke still eyeing me. I then noticed that a friend of mine was parked right next to me talking on the phone in his car so I went up to him just to say whats up. Turns out she knew him too and went up to him also trying to get his attention from outside the car. I figured she was a smoker and so was I so I pretended to to not have a lighter and asked my friend for one. Thats when she immedietly offered a light and asked me to follow her to her car. On the way to her car she introduced herself and I did likewise. This chick didnt even waste her time cuz she started asking all kinds of stuff about me:

"Where you from?"
"What do you like to do for fun?"
"Do you party alot?"
"Where'd you attend high school?"
"How long have you been working there?"

etc...yea, she did most of the asking/talking, but I would also revert the question to her.

Anyways, our friend joined us later in the conversation and she told him "hey stop ****blocking me". I decided to grab a jacket from my car and when I came back, she already had her cell out and ready and asked for my number(I got hers too btw). She told me that she was gonna invite me to her kickback at her house when her parents were gone. Shortly after that, I told them that I had to go because me and a few friends were going to a bar that night. She said she wanted to tag along but she had to go home or some sh!t.

Anyways, I was a bit suspicious because that whole thing was almost too easy. She initiated the interaction, she initiated the conversation, She also told me "finally, I meet someone at my level" because she asked me my age and I was only a year or less younger than her(im 21 and shes 22). She asked for my digits, she already invited me over to her invite only thing at her place.

As I was driving away tonight I was thinking that she was:

a) Lonely
b) Just got out of an LTR and was looking for a rebound(takes a bow).
c) Easy
d) Crazy
e) Attention-ho/C0ck tease
e) ...or was really attracted to me?

I need your opinions guys.
She'll be good to have some fun with when you feel like it though.

Keep at it, check the situation out, see how worthy it is. Remember not to let her easiness get to you too much, keep a tight game running.
 

Rebound Material

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Poll said:
Sounds like you are the chick and she is the wannabe DJ.
She's probably writing a FR right now how she number close you.
As sad as it sounds....THATS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING!

I kinda felt like a b!tch afterwards...

As far as this goes, ill keep my guard up high at all times on this chick.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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gherald

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thats the best thing you can do...

keep your guard up and act accordingly...

btw my answer is either a or e....
 

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Act like a drumm..... and bang.
 

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She's probably a female player and does this alot. I had a girl come on to me like that and give me her number without me asking for it and then later on I found out she was seeing about 4 or 5 guys including me at the same time.
 

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ryannath said:
She's probably a female player and does this alot. I had a girl come on to me like that and give me her number without me asking for it and then later on I found out she was seeing about 4 or 5 guys including me at the same time.

This has been my experience with these kinds of girls too.
 

Rebound Material

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ryannath said:
She's probably a female player and does this alot. I had a girl come on to me like that and give me her number without me asking for it and then later on I found out she was seeing about 4 or 5 guys including me at the same time.
Did you get to bang her at least?

Anyways, from the looks of it she probably is a guy hopper BUT, I really wanna lose this fcuking V-card already so Ill proceed carefully...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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