MindOverMatter
Master Don Juan
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don't respond.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Is this "break different from the rest?
- Thread starter NYjets45
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
, ive caught the ametuer dj mindHaha, congrats man. Do not give her any benefit of your approval, disaproval or hurt on justifying what she really did. Cut off ALL communication. No email, no phone calls. She was going to do this to you anyways by the end of it, at least you were a man about it and demanded what should have been told before the break.
Besides, I'm sure you can read through all her BS in that email. She's just trying to make herself feel more secure about the breakup, blaming herself instead of you.
All I can say is GET BACK OUT THERE AND HOOK UP ONCE AGAIN MY MAN!
Besides, I'm sure you can read through all her BS in that email. She's just trying to make herself feel more secure about the breakup, blaming herself instead of you.
All I can say is GET BACK OUT THERE AND HOOK UP ONCE AGAIN MY MAN!
tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
For lame, she's doing a textbook breakup. First cause some BS and you to doubt yourself where she's concerned .. as if it is something YOU did.
After breakup occurs, feels guilty and tries to make HERSELF feel better about it, and doesn't want to come across as the 'bad guy'.
She even used the words "always in my heart". If that isn't a load of BS .. in other words, goodbye. Also, 'you're too good for me'. Another trademark thing to supress the guilt.
After breakup occurs, feels guilty and tries to make HERSELF feel better about it, and doesn't want to come across as the 'bad guy'.
She even used the words "always in my heart". If that isn't a load of BS .. in other words, goodbye. Also, 'you're too good for me'. Another trademark thing to supress the guilt.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.