Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is this bouncer unprofessional?

LeonSK

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I saw this hot girl standing outside the club talking to the bouncer. I joined the conversation. After a little bit, the bouncer left. I asked the girl "is that your bf?" She responded with a firm "no". I then try to number close and she was ready to punch in her number. At this time, the bouncer came back and told me to back off. He was mad. I didn't want to get into a fight with the bouncer so I backed off but I was super pissed because the girl was apparently interested.

What would you do in this situation? Would you ever approach a girl who's talking to the bouncer? I mean she can be just a normal customer. Also I thought the bouncer was unprofessional because he was doing the things (starting a fight) he tried to prevent as the duty of a bouncer.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bible_Belt

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Obviously he liked her. And yes, he was unprofessional. There's not much you can do. I might make fun of him in front of the girl just to ruin his chances before I left.

I have known bouncers who get away with beating up customers, because they know all the cops, since the cops are always at the club.

I actually had something similar happen with a female bar tender and a bouncer who obviously had a boner for her. I ordered a few beers, and in the time it took her to come back, someone else joined us so I asked for another beer. She chewed me out for it because she had to walk down the bar again, about another ten feet. I asked her in a very quiet, very normal and not nasty way 'why are you being a b!tch?' I had been there many times and halfway knew the girl. She told the bouncer I called her a b!tch and he turned in to Capt Saveaho. He told me to leave, and I ignored him. I was mad because I hate bullies. They are all pvssies at heart. That guy was, too, he gave up on kicking me out.
 

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I used to be a bouncer over 10 years ago in Denver's hottest night club 'The Church' in an old previous Catholic cathedral (quite breathtaking place and sacrilegious, true sinful way to party!).

Bouncers are just regular guys who has the power of Merchant Guard license from the city to do what they do. In the end, they can behave however they like, differing from men to men. Best behave well, worst - what you seen, the typical male meat head.

I think it depends on the class of the club, 'The Church' was one of the top dogs so the bouncers are all dressed up, almost in suits sometimes and that behavior wouldn't happen.

Exodus
 

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the bouncer was like moose over midge, in that moment ya should've played the reggie mantle part :)
 

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All bouncers sit around and fondle themselves while watching Roadhouse.

As for bouncers knowing the cops on a first name basis, that's true. The way you one up that is to be friends with the son of a city council member who signs the cops checks. That's what I did a long time ago and the cops never fvck with me once they find out who I know and just how well I know them.:up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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