“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is this bouncer unprofessional?

LeonSK

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I saw this hot girl standing outside the club talking to the bouncer. I joined the conversation. After a little bit, the bouncer left. I asked the girl "is that your bf?" She responded with a firm "no". I then try to number close and she was ready to punch in her number. At this time, the bouncer came back and told me to back off. He was mad. I didn't want to get into a fight with the bouncer so I backed off but I was super pissed because the girl was apparently interested.

What would you do in this situation? Would you ever approach a girl who's talking to the bouncer? I mean she can be just a normal customer. Also I thought the bouncer was unprofessional because he was doing the things (starting a fight) he tried to prevent as the duty of a bouncer.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Obviously he liked her. And yes, he was unprofessional. There's not much you can do. I might make fun of him in front of the girl just to ruin his chances before I left.

I have known bouncers who get away with beating up customers, because they know all the cops, since the cops are always at the club.

I actually had something similar happen with a female bar tender and a bouncer who obviously had a boner for her. I ordered a few beers, and in the time it took her to come back, someone else joined us so I asked for another beer. She chewed me out for it because she had to walk down the bar again, about another ten feet. I asked her in a very quiet, very normal and not nasty way 'why are you being a b!tch?' I had been there many times and halfway knew the girl. She told the bouncer I called her a b!tch and he turned in to Capt Saveaho. He told me to leave, and I ignored him. I was mad because I hate bullies. They are all pvssies at heart. That guy was, too, he gave up on kicking me out.
 

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I used to be a bouncer over 10 years ago in Denver's hottest night club 'The Church' in an old previous Catholic cathedral (quite breathtaking place and sacrilegious, true sinful way to party!).

Bouncers are just regular guys who has the power of Merchant Guard license from the city to do what they do. In the end, they can behave however they like, differing from men to men. Best behave well, worst - what you seen, the typical male meat head.

I think it depends on the class of the club, 'The Church' was one of the top dogs so the bouncers are all dressed up, almost in suits sometimes and that behavior wouldn't happen.

Exodus
 

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the bouncer was like moose over midge, in that moment ya should've played the reggie mantle part :)
 

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All bouncers sit around and fondle themselves while watching Roadhouse.

As for bouncers knowing the cops on a first name basis, that's true. The way you one up that is to be friends with the son of a city council member who signs the cops checks. That's what I did a long time ago and the cops never fvck with me once they find out who I know and just how well I know them.:up:
 
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