"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is this b1tch playing games with me?

aix237

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So I haven't posted on here in a long time but I have come a long way since..So my parents and I recently just bought a condo which I will live in not them...my realtor is an older lady...im 31 she is mid 30's id say. but when I first met her I was thinking how much I would like to bone that lol...she was wearing very nice stuff..Gucci etc. nice car and so on and I noticed she had a big diamond ring on her finger...that was about a month ago or so..today she came to do a walk thru before we closed the condo.

When she pulled up she looked thinner..we talked a little never really flirted with her too hard..but today after we were done she asked if I wanted to hit up some pools with her (I live in vegas btw lol)..I was shocked because I never thought she would ask to hang out but when she asked there was no ring and then I thought she got thin so that means recent break up.

We talked joked whatever and when she was getting in her car she was like yea cant wait to go to the pools ill bring my hot friend shes a lawyer blah blah blah. Then she said shell talk to me on wed (today is mon) to give me the keys yadda yadda. this was at 430.

I decided to look at her Facebook page...a lot of male orbiters complementing her etc. and recent pic of her at the bar with her lawyer friend who is hot also.

At 830 tonight I got a text from her and it said "I cant wait to go the pools with you!!"

I replied 20 min later and said haha yea we'll hit up the MGM pool probably (told her my friends were coming out in 2 weeks). then I sent another text within 5 min and said I have a comp at a sushi restaurant from the Bellagio...she replied immediately and said "let me look up the menu online and see if they have a good vegan selection because I am vegan." I replied with "haha ok".

so now its been 45 min and she hasnt' said anything..I wonder if she got offended by saying haha thinking I was laughing at her being vegan. but on the other hand maybe shes testing me.. im def not asking her what she decided or whatever..im suppose to see her on wednsday to get the keys so I don't know now what will happen if she doesn't respond.

I took her texting me tonight about the pool as opening herself up so that's why I asked..I seriously hope it wasnt because I just said "haha ok". gurantee she gets hit up all the time by guys though. she is from here though so anything is possible..even my dad who has never met her just only talked on the phone with said "she is a hustler" lol.. is she messing with me?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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VladPatton

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Shıt comes up, don't sweat it or panic-text her. Make it seem like you have these things lined up every day, all day. She made the first move, so she'll probably contact you at some point. Just hang in there and let it ride. If nothing happens, wait a week and send a text saying hi. That's about all you can do.
 

Die Hard

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Don't go on TILT. Stay calm and collected, stay COOL.

45 minutes of no texting and you start worrying... Try to get a grip on yourself and force yourself into a "don't give a fvck" mindset.

The more you care, the less successful you'll be at gaming women! So keep your composure and don't let your desire for her take over control.

Now is the time to see how strong your inner game is, make us all proud!
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Aix237,
Real Estate is a profession,that is in the main,for the disingenuous if not downright deceptive,I once owned a Building firm where over the years,I mixed with quite a few...If you are sure her interest in you has nothing to do with business then you may find she makes a good plate....They always have excuses for long lunches,spend their lives outside the Office!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Desdinova

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then I sent another text within 5 min and said I have a comp at a sushi restaurant from the Bellagio
That might have been piling too much onto the date plate. ALWAYS keep a first date simple. Your sushi offer (although it being free) shows that you're highly interested in her, and could make you appear as if you're supplicating.

When things are already going in a good direction, don't stray from the path.
 
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