"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this asking for too much?

JackBauer24

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This is the kind of girl I'm looking for. Breasts don't have to be that big. In fact (she says she's 34DD), you could make those Cs and she'd still be just as hot.

For me, getting laid isn't a contest where you tally up how many women you've slept with. Any guy who is at least a 6 in looks can sleep with a lot of women. For me, it's about quality, and getting the type of women I want.

Too bad for me, she lives in the UK.

Off-topic: I asked her what she would rate herself, she said a 4 or 5 because there are women hotter than her. So not all HBs have egos.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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JackBauer24 said:
In fact (she says she's 34DD), you could make those Cs and she'd still be just as hot.
If she went down to Cs she'd be a 3 instead of a 4 or 5 haha.
 

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Yes next time you talk to her or whatever tell her to buy a better camera then that sh1t one she bought at K-mart or whatever store they have at the U.K. That girl does look pretty good but I dont beleive her when she say's she a 4..I mean you gotta remember that lots of guys probably give her compliments on her looks so she does have a big ego, good luck finding a girl like that wherever you live and for me fvck the sh1t out of her and savor it ...because you never know when your gonna blow it.
 

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Actually the guy is better looking. The female looks worn. I wouldn't get close enough to poke her with a stick. Luckily I don't live in Texas or England!!!
 

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HEy what's up with that comment about Texas!?!?! You saying we all suck or something lol?:/
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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clearly she is just an ugly 4 or 5 and for some reason you think she is hotter due to the blonde hair and titties, end of story (did you wonder why you cant see her face in the pictures?)
 

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bah, all I want is a good-looking, virgin, non-hippie girl who has values and acts nice to me. I didn't think I was asking for much, but i've been looking for quite a while
 

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Isn't it great how we each have our own taste in women?!!!!

That chick is ok, but I've got my own preferences.

Go for her if you can get her, man.

The rest of us will go after what we like. All's well.
 

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meitenesrigas said:
Actually the guy is better looking. The female looks worn. I wouldn't get close enough to poke her with a stick. Luckily I don't live in Texas or England!!!
The guy is me.
 

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The guy is me.
You're good looking mate, don't sell yourself short because women are overpriced. Good Luck.

MM
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This is what I don't get. Those pics aren't glamour shots of me. That's exactly how I look in real life. Guys and girls tell me how good looking I am on here, but in real life, I've probably had more rejections than any guy on this board.
 

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JackBauer24 said:
This is what I don't get. Those pics aren't glamour shots of me. That's exactly how I look in real life. Guys and girls tell me how good looking I am on here, but in real life, I've probably had more rejections than any guy on this board.
It's not because there's lots of ugly guys getting laid, it's because most guys don't and most women do, so a consequence of that is a big chunk of good looking guys don't get laid either. I don't get women either and there's probably nothing wrong with my game or looks either. It's just so competitive. Remember you are not the only good looking guy who is funny that wants her. She can find that easily at a club.

MM
 

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Jack, if you're only focusing on laying a chick that looks like that, you still need to work on yourself.

But if you're looking for a GF or Wife, then it has more to do with what kind of person she is, what kind of character does she have, do you have the same values?
A lot of the problems on this site are because guys want to forge relationships with women who are low class, and have poor attitudes among others. Not to mention, that lot of guys are pretty clueless, and have SERIOUS, SERIOUS Innner Game issues.
You know how they say "Like attractes Like"?

Think about that one.


Always Qualify a woman for either a ONS, FB status or LTR quality.

It is EITHER/OR.

It IS Binary.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Good point, Interceptor. Let me clarify, this is the kind of girl I would like to sleep with, not the kind of woman I'd like to date. Like most of you seem to agree, you can find better looking than her, but for a ONS or FB, her face is good enough considering her thin, curvy body.
 

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Ok, Understood.

Agreed, Jack.

And oh BTW, I think she's hot.

Just keep working on yourself.
Your goal is creating and sparking attraction, and your inner game.
 
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