here is the situation !
My girl I have been dating for 10 months and like a lot had her work Christmas party yesterday. I had plans to hang out with some friends and invited her but she called it off due to having her work party witch I wasn't invited too and she said might finish late. Fair enough ....
At about 11 o'clock she text me she is on her way home.
I text her back around midnight asking if she had fun.
She text me back around 2 in the morning saying it was fun and that she actually went to a house party with work people.
I asked her who... And turns out she went to a house party with the new guy in the office ( she told me about him a week earlier that he was very quiet and weird ) and her best friend from work ( her best fiend is not the party kind at all so a bit unsure that she would go to some random party at midnight )
Anyways too make a long story she could feel Ididnt know what to think about it so she called me. She was telling me she was crazy about me and had nothing to worry about... Was 110 % with me etc etc she even cried about i because I was a bit cold with her.
Anyways I am used to displaying very little jealousy and my girl consider me a catch and generally treats me like a king. But I got played in my back in last relationship so I am a bit more aware of that stuff now and don't want to be innocents or naive about it.
But am I right to think this is a little in appropriate or simply paranoid ?!
My girl I have been dating for 10 months and like a lot had her work Christmas party yesterday. I had plans to hang out with some friends and invited her but she called it off due to having her work party witch I wasn't invited too and she said might finish late. Fair enough ....
At about 11 o'clock she text me she is on her way home.
I text her back around midnight asking if she had fun.
She text me back around 2 in the morning saying it was fun and that she actually went to a house party with work people.
I asked her who... And turns out she went to a house party with the new guy in the office ( she told me about him a week earlier that he was very quiet and weird ) and her best friend from work ( her best fiend is not the party kind at all so a bit unsure that she would go to some random party at midnight )
Anyways too make a long story she could feel Ididnt know what to think about it so she called me. She was telling me she was crazy about me and had nothing to worry about... Was 110 % with me etc etc she even cried about i because I was a bit cold with her.
Anyways I am used to displaying very little jealousy and my girl consider me a catch and generally treats me like a king. But I got played in my back in last relationship so I am a bit more aware of that stuff now and don't want to be innocents or naive about it.
But am I right to think this is a little in appropriate or simply paranoid ?!
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