"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is this an oxymoron?

RickR13

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"I'm emotionally numb to some extent ... I can only hang with my friends right now, anything more feels overwhelming"

Granted this girl is going through some traumatic issues in her life recently. Life changing issues. But her recent loss of interest and contradictory words make me wonder if she is genuine. Should I call her out in it? or go Ghost/NC and move on?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Unless you're one of her friends, she's basically just told you to bugger off and that she's damaged goods.

I wouldn't even dignify her statement with a response.
 

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I'm just disappointed I guess. Ive been trying to meet someone for an extended relationship for 3 years now, and finally found someone I wanted to be with. There have been a couple of others, but I lost interest. Now the tables are turned so its a bit of a blow. Unfortunately it went from bliss to low interest in a short span so its been fooling with my head a bit.
 
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