"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"I'm emotionally numb to some extent ... I can only hang with my friends right now, anything more feels overwhelming"

Granted this girl is going through some traumatic issues in her life recently. Life changing issues. But her recent loss of interest and contradictory words make me wonder if she is genuine. Should I call her out in it? or go Ghost/NC and move on?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Unless you're one of her friends, she's basically just told you to bugger off and that she's damaged goods.

I wouldn't even dignify her statement with a response.
 
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I'm just disappointed I guess. Ive been trying to meet someone for an extended relationship for 3 years now, and finally found someone I wanted to be with. There have been a couple of others, but I lost interest. Now the tables are turned so its a bit of a blow. Unfortunately it went from bliss to low interest in a short span so its been fooling with my head a bit.
 
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