"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is this an IOI?

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Fellow DJs,

I have realized this for all the girls that were REALLY interested in me in the past, and including the girl i am dating these days... These girls were used to call me, mostly in attraction phase (and the beginning of comfort phase), at exact times, lets say for instance at 4:00, or 5:00 or maybe 6:00 and so on ... They rarely called me at random hours like, lets say 4:27 or 7:38 ... have this ever happened to you? Is this an IOI or just an illusion? :confused:
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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I think you're totally overanalyzing the situation. They are probably just calling you between reality shows. ;)

Seriously - it doesn't matter.

~Vibe~
 
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Don't bother replying retarded posts, that's even more retarded ... :)
 
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That's right... and don't forget to call me at 4 o'clock on the dot... :crazy:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dude, do you always answer the phone every time they call?
 
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