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Is this an IOI?

The LadyKiller

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A couple of months ago, I met a HB. However, due to her being in a relationship, I didn't try to do anything with her (I don't try to get involved with taken women, not worth the drama). However, it appears HB broke up with her long-ish term bf a couple of weeks ago, so I'm ready to move in.

This week, I've picked up on an interesting tactic by her. Yes, we're co-workers (not the same department and yes, I know all the workplace risks, don't need a lecture about it). Our schedules aren't a great fit, as each of our days off are on different days. This week, my two days off were right before her two days off.

She has contacted me all four days. Never anything major, usually quick question about something (not particularly personal). These are things I feel she: a.) Might already know the answer to, and B.) She knows several other people who also know the answers.

We flirt plenty, there's kino on both sides, and we're going out this weekend. So, is this "keeping in touch" that she's doing an indicator of anything, or am I overthinking?
 

usernamedox11

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There's always a million things that could be considered IOIs. The only way to know for sure is to ask her if she wants to hang out. If she doesn't want to, don't let it bother you. But it looks like you're hanging out with her over the weekend, so don't see why she isn't interested. That's if it's just you and her going out together. If it's you, her, and co-workers, different story. If it is you, her, and the co-workers, ask her to hang out so you know for sure.
 

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Rebound bang! Go for drinks.
 

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The LadyKiller said:
A couple of months ago, I met a HB. However, due to her being in a relationship, I didn't try to do anything with her (I don't try to get involved with taken women, not worth the drama). However, it appears HB broke up with her long-ish term bf a couple of weeks ago, so I'm ready to move in.

This week, I've picked up on an interesting tactic by her. Yes, we're co-workers (not the same department and yes, I know all the workplace risks, don't need a lecture about it). Our schedules aren't a great fit, as each of our days off are on different days. This week, my two days off were right before her two days off.

She has contacted me all four days. Never anything major, usually quick question about something (not particularly personal). These are things I feel she: a.) Might already know the answer to, and B.) She knows several other people who also know the answers.

We flirt plenty, there's kino on both sides, and we're going out this weekend. So, is this "keeping in touch" that she's doing an indicator of anything, or am I overthinking?

I had the exact same situation with a girl I know a weeks back.. I PM'd you about it.. Where you from? I don't know why, but it feels we might have met the same girl..
 

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Definitely showing interest. Go for it and be confident about it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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