"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is this an IOI?

jdawgmcb

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Would it be an IOI (indicator of interest) if a girl said, out of nowhere, in a class,

"Wow, u have really long eyelashes."

I'd like to know, bc a hb8 said that to me :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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panosha

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you mean really strong eye contact because it takes some time to judge how long your eyelashes are:woo:
 

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No, actually it probably isn't... thought theres a small chance it could be.
Once I had an 8 say "I love your eyes" randomly to me in class but it was clear she wasn't interested in me.

If she shows other signs more like this, then you might be able to treat them as IOIs, but girls just say stuff.. and ya shouldn't take it too seriously.
Now if she did something like grab your hand and say that... well thats a big IOI there :p
 

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offtopic: well i got this girl on my class wich randomly pops out of nowhere smiles while saying my name and has tried mutiple times 2 grab my ass...is that an IOI or what?=)

ontopic: like said above she needs to make eye contact to say that or its just some random stuff that she said maybe just to see if you could make a joke out of it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
No, actually it probably isn't... thought theres a small chance it could be.
Once I had an 8 say "I love your eyes" randomly to me in class but it was clear she wasn't interested in me.

If she shows other signs more like this, then you might be able to treat them as IOIs, but girls just say stuff.. and ya shouldn't take it too seriously.
Now if she did something like grab your hand and say that... well thats a big IOI there :p

quit being so left brained. even if she wasnt interested, who gives a fvck? approach anyway. a b1tch can give u eye contact for a half of a second and still be interested!!

if ur always asking yourself, "is that an IOI?" "Does she like me?" "She only helled eye contact for 2.34566 seconds, should i approach?" u aint gonna get nowhere.
 

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Punisha said:
offtopic: well i got this girl on my class wich randomly pops out of nowhere smiles while saying my name and has tried mutiple times 2 grab my ass...is that an IOI or what?=)

yes god damnit!!!!
 

jdawgmcb

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Thanks guys, i'm going to do a simple approach tomorrow and see if i get any straight eye contact or hair-touching, and i will report back :)
 
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